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btr.org – btr.org has daily, online group and individual coaching sessions for victims of emotional & psychological abuse and sexual coercion. For women experiencing pain, chaos, and isolation due to their husband’s abuse: lying, gaslighting, manipulation, porn use, cheating, infidelity, emotional abuse, and narcissistic abuse. We recognize that labeling a woman as codependent is a form of victim blaming. Pornography addiction / sex addiction are a domestic abuse issue. Narcissistic abuse is ...
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BEAUTY BEYOND BETRAYAL - Heal from Betrayal, Affair Recovery, Betrayal Trauma Recovery

Lisa Limehouse - Christian Betrayal Trauma Specialist, Affair Recovery Coach, Certified Life Coach, Phoenix Rising

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Hope and Healing for Christian Women Have you just found out your husband has sexually betrayed you? Do you feel like the pain will never end? Are you so overwhelmed that you just don’t know how to navigate through the trauma it has brought upon you? Do you feel like you will never trust anyone ever again? In this podcast you will find biblical guidance, pure honesty and tactical solutions that will help you heal from the betrayal of an affair. My mission is to help you heal from the devasta ...
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Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

Choose Recovery Services - Alana Gordon and Amie Woolsey

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Choose To Be is focused on women healing from infidelity, and betrayal trauma. We are committed to helping women heal. Be a part of the conversation as we interview experts and others who have gone through this journey and gain tools to help you move forward. Alana and Amie bring their own experiences to the conversation, and their individual expertise makes for a unique and valuable resource. Alana Gordon-MFTI, CCPS, CSAT candidate, Betrayal Coach Amie Woolsey-Betrayal Coach, CPC, ELI-MP, A ...
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J.R. is back on The BTR.ORG Podcast sharing her story. She struggled to know if she should divorce her emotionally abusive husband. Then she struggled to know if her her religious beliefs allowed her to divorce him for emotional abuse. She also struggled with whether or not she wanted to divorce him. If you relate to this, hopefully this informatio…
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Are you constantly judging your emotions as good or bad? Do you feel guilty for experiencing “negative” feelings? In this episode, Amie dives deep into the tendency we often have of moralizing our emotions. Learn why it’s important to notice and name your feelings, to become aware of when you might be suppressing emotions, and how to embrace all of…
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Sexual Betrayal is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can ever go through in life. The one you gave your heart to, the one who you put your complete trust in, the one who you love with all your heart has given himself to another. Had an affair, be it emotional, physical, or both. Or maybe it is pornography with sexual addiction. Eithe…
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J.R. spent nearly a decade “working on herself”, trying to be a better wife to improve her marriage. She didn’t know she needed to learn about emotional and psychological abuse to realize that she wasn’t the problem. If you’re husband says your the problem, there may be something else going on. This episode is Part One of Anne’s interview with J.R.…
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Have you ever felt so overwhelmed by the damage caused by your addiction that giving up seemed like the only option? In this episode, Luke Gordon, cofounder and coach at Choose Recovery Services, as well as a father in recovery, opens up about grappling with feelings of hopelessness when facing attachment wounds inflicted on his children because of…
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Betrayal knocks you off your feet. It turns your world upside down. Your mind is constantly racing and won't stop, your body is fatigued and you don't feel like you can go another minute. But there is so much to do. People to take care of. Places to go. Why won't the world just STOP and recognize you are in pain. You've been betrayed and it's like …
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Just the thought of being vulnerable with your spouse after you discover they have betrayed you can be frightening. I get it. I remember thinking to myself, "I will NEVER open up to him again. I will NEVER let him into my heart again. I will NEVER share my thoughts, desires, hopes or dreams with him ever again!" I was wounded, devastated, and didn'…
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After betrayal, even if you've decided to reconcile the relationship, you can still have a hard time being vulnerable with your spouse. What if he/she betrays be again? What if I get hurt again? What if they lie to me again? What if he/she judges my feelings? All these are valid fears. But how can we get past our fears and anxiety to become vulnera…
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The global severity of human trafficking and sexual exploitation is clear. Melea Stephens is on The Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast to explain what you can do to stop human trafficking and sexual exploitation. Here at BTR.ORG, we deeply appreciate the National Center on Sexual Exploitation (NCOSE) and the important work they do. Learn more about N…
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This week we are excited to welcome Luke Gordon to the podcast! Luke is an emotional health coach and cofounder of Choose Recovery Services who specializes in helping men overcome unwanted sexual compulsive behaviors. Luke shares how disruptions in our earliest childhood attachments form the foundation for later challenges like addiction, unhealthy…
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Can your marriage really survive betrayal? Can you salvage it and pick up the pieces to build a better relationship on the other side of infidelity? How do I know if I should stay with my spouse after he/she cheated on me? In today's episode, we are looking at 3 questions that can help you decide if you should stay or go after betrayal. I pray this…
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Betrayal HURTS! It's devastating and the loss is great. We want to run and hide from the pain. Just thinking about having to do any kind of healing work can be overwhelming and exhausting. Is there a way to shortcut the healing process from betrayal trauma? And if we shortcut, will it help? Today, I'm sharing 4 ways we seek to "shortcut" the proces…
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Learning how to set boundaries in an emotionally abusive relationship may feel confusing and overwhelming. But here at BTR.ORG, we know that with the proper tools – including support and self-compassion – you can master boundary-setting and begin your journey to emotional safety and healing. Elizabeth, a member of the BTR.ORG community, is back on …
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When parents have experienced betrayal in their relationship, the entire family system is impacted. Teens and young adults are old enough to sense things are amiss, but may not understand everything that’s happening in their parents’ world. In today’s episode we are excited to welcome Morgan Ellsworth, a life coach at Choose Recovery Services. She …
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Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma? In Part 1 of this 2 Part Episode, I shared what keeps you stuck in the trauma of the betrayal. In Part 2 - we are looking at what you can do to finally begin to move out of the quicksand of betrayal and loss so you can begin to love your life again and actually thrive on the other side of th…
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Why do some heal faster than others from betrayal trauma? 🧐Have you ever wondered why some are able to move on from the devastating effects of betrayal and even Thrive? Have you ever wondered why there are those that just can’t get past the trauma? 🤔Could it be that the first group or just more resilient or it’s possible they have a certain persona…
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Although it might not necessarily look like a cycle, emotional abuse shows up in patterns. If you know what to look for, understanding the cycle of abuse can help you understand your situation. “I felt like something was off…but I didn’t know what to look for.” Elizabeth, like many victims of hidden abuse, felt unsettled early on in the relationshi…
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We know attachment can suffer between partners when there’s been betrayal or trauma, but how are our kids’ attachments impacted? In today’s episode, Amie and Alana unpack how to be a solid anchor for your children during hard times. Learn how to be grounded, regulated, and vulnerable to help your children stay securely attached to you even amidst c…
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Many would like to blame marital problems to justify their affair. Or even use the difficulties within the marital relationship as an excuse to stray. But let me just begin today with truth… Marriages don’t cause affairs. Good or bad. Many who have affairs actually have good marriages. And then there are those whose marriages are difficult - both h…
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Why are some people more vulnerable to an affair than others? Last episode, we explored social factors that can create vulnerability. (The link to Part 1 is below) In today’s episode, I want to help you understand the individual factors that can make you vulnerable. Let me just begin by restating what I said in the last episode: What I am sharing w…
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In the aftermath of an abusive marriage, many victims still have to work toward physical safety – but after physical safety has been achieved, there is a spectrum of emotions to process. Vicki is on The BTR.ORG Podcast in the final installment of her three-part interview, sharing her joys, insecurities, fears, and hopes in the aftermath of her thir…
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Do you ever feel tangled up in knots trying to understand where your relationship pain stems from? How can you tell if your pain is coming from childhood attachment wounds or current betrayal trauma? This week Amie and Alana help us learn how to unravel old and new attachment knots and walk us through what we can do to feel secure again in our rela…
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Why is it that 2 people can be in the same relationship - good or bad - yet one cheats and the other stays faithful? What made the one who betrayed vulnerable to an affair? Why did the other stay faithful? I'm sure these questions have crossed your mind at some point if you have been betrayed. This is part 1 of a 3 part series exploring what really…
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Every victim faces a unique moment when she has had enough, when she realizes, “It’s time to leave.” Vicki shares her powerful story of liberating herself from an abusive marriage when she reached her own moment of realization. Vicki’s story offers a beacon of hope for survivors facing similar challenges. Tune in to The BTR.ORG Podcast and read the…
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Have you ever felt disconnected, even when your partner is right beside you? In these situations, ask yourself, “A.R.E. you there for me?” Amie and Alana break down the acronym "A.R.E." to give you a tool to help you set the foundation for meaningful bonds, communication and attachment. Learn how to deepen your connection so you can be there for ot…
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Join us in today's episode where we pick up in Part 2 of our interview with Joy & Josh Drago. They are sharing their story of redemption after facing sexual addiction and infidelity in their marriage. Their story is inspiring and encouraging for those who have faced the devastation of betrayal. Josh's Book: The Field Guide To Freedom Josh Drago Web…
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Betrayal - It consists of pornography, sexual addiction, emotional and physical infidelity. Can your marriage really survive after you have these infiltrate your relationship? How can you heal, recover, and come out even better on the other side? Is it really possible? I had the priviledge of interviewing Joy & Josh Drago and in today's episode, th…
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Walking away after decades of narcissistic abuse? Chances are you’re experiencing grief, fear, anger, loneliness. The spectrum of emotions that victims of covert abuse experience over decades of cruelty is almost impossible to describe to someone who hasn’t experienced it. Vicki shares her story poignantly in this vulnerable unfolding of her painfu…
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Do you crave deep connection but struggle to let partners in? Have you ever accused loved ones of being distant when they simply needed space? These behaviors could stem from your attachment style. Join Amie and Alana as they delve into attachment theory and how our attachment styles formed in childhood become blueprints for our relationships throu…
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"How do I know I am healing from betrayal trauma?" It's a question I'm asked often. Each of us experience healing on different levels and different timelines. No two are alike. We are uniquely, fearfully, and wonderfully made so we will experience our healing journey different from another. But how do you know if you are truly healing? Today, I'm s…
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Why does it hurt so much? Many of us, after betrayal, ask ourselves and others this question. The pain can be debilitating, excruciating, beyond words. It can feel as if the pain will overtake your very life. Who can truly understand what you are going through? What the pain actually is like? In today's episode, I'm sharing why it hurts so badly an…
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This question came in from one of the beautiful women who are in my FREE Facebook Community: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women (If you not in yet, why not? Just answer the questions and let's heal together!) Can you really have symptoms equated to PTSD after betrayal? Is betrayal trauma really a thing? We are diving de…
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This episode is Part 3 of the series on the new BTR.ORG Meditation Workshop. Part 1: Brand New Meditations for Victims of Betrayal & Abuse Part 2: Find Peace & Calm With Our New BTR.ORG Meditations Part 3: New Meditations: Are You Ready to Start Healing? (this episode) BTR.ORG Meditations: A Healing Modality for All Sammy, like many members of the …
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Trust is essential in healthy relationships, yet it is shattered by betrayal. Rebuilding that broken trust can feel impossible. In this episode, Alana tackles head-on the messy complexities around trust after betrayal. She offers insight into power imbalances, avoiding the dangerous “floating saint” trap, boundary setting, embracing imperfection, a…
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Deception affects us at a deep level. It erodes trust, distorts our reality, and leaves us suffering great grief and anger regarding the betrayal. But does it only affect the one who is deceived? Are there dilemmas for the betrayer/deceiver? In part 2, let's talk about how deception affects both the deceiver and the one who is deceived, how both ca…
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I often hear from both women and men that deception is the hardest to heal from when they have been betrayed. It's the secrets, the lies, the deceptive life that the one you love so dearly has been engrossed in. It's so hard to fathom how your spouse could ever deceive you in such a grievous way. But they did. Now you are left trying to pick up the…
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If you’ve experienced betrayal in a relationship then you know what it’s like to feel rejected by your partner. But are you aware of ways you may be rejecting YOURSELF? In this episode, Amie sheds light on the topic of self-rejection. Learn what self-rejection is, how it shows up in our thoughts and actions, and what you can do to overcome this bar…
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