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Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends. If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this show is for you. You may not be able to change them but you CAN change everything that your child needs to be healthy and happy. Listen in as Charlie and Brook discuss the principles, tools and techniques available in order to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
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Episode 233 Beliefs, The Center of Conflict
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Please download or free booklet "When Co-Parenting Doesn't Work" @ https://www.highconflict.net/booklet and join our mailing list @ https://www.highconflict.net/emails For classes or one on one consults with Brook please visit our highconflict.net website to register.Bởi Brook Olsen
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Episode 232 The Mind Trap of the Notion of Fair
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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the need for seasonal preparedness in getting ready for the challenges that come with Spring and Summer travel, not having things in place with a good parenting plan and having a plan in place when things go wrong. Also getting ready to get the kids in place for the next school year because if court is needed …
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Episode 233 Negative Intimacy Another Look Under the Hood of Narcissistic Behavior
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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss Negative Intimacy, a term used to describe how someone with a narcissistic personality keeps the other parent hooked in conflict by applying this often unconscious strategy in order control and punish them. It is a hard concept to understand because it makes no sense and does harm to the children by keeping th…
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Episode 231 Spring and Summer What Will It Be Flowers or Poison Oak
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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the need for seasonal preparedness in getting ready for the challenges that come with Spring and Summer travel, not having things in place with a good parenting plan and having a plan in place when things go wrong. Also getting ready to get the kids in place for the next school year because if court is needed …
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Episode 230 Emotional Blackmail, A Double Bind Conversation Leading From Entitlement to Weaponization
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In this episode Brook and Tony discuss how children often use Emotional Blackmail and put their parents in areas of discomfort to get what the want. This is especially prevalent during parental discourse and conflict. The parent doesn't want to make the child feel uncomfortable during times of change and allow for things they might not normally. Th…
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Episode 229 A Wolf in Sheep's Clothing An Exploration of Covert Narcissism and the Chaos it Elicits
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the behaviors and signs that come along with the Covert Narcissists defensive presentations. This is an extensive and interesting discussion that deserves listening to multiple times. As always this information is meant to help our listeners identify behaviors so as not to get caught in the engagement with…
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Episode 228 How To Have Hard Conversations With Your Children with Author Sara Olsher
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In this episode Brook has special author Sara Olsher to discuss the importance for parents to have special language to speak with their children about hard subject. When children are caught in the middle of High Conflict parents they need a parent to be able to speak to them in a way that helps them navigate the unconscious behaviors of a parent th…
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Episode 227 Initial Conditions A Different Look at the Development of the Conflict Triangle
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss the initial conditions that create the beliefs and Pseudo-solutions that develop in narcissism and borderline personalities and the codependent behaviors that entangle the high conflict triangle. For more information about our services Please visit our web page at www.highconflict.net You can follow Michel…
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Episode 226 Gratitude, Moving Beyond Stuck and Into Agency
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If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the notion of finding the prospective of replacing gratitude and wonderment from victimization and what is being done…
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Episode 225 Parts in Conflict An Internal Family Systems Discussion with Richard Schwartz PhD
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If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this podcast Brook interviews Dr. Richard Schwartz PhD. Dr Schwartz developed the Internal Family Systems Model of therapy and has written a number of bo…
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Episode 224 Connecting With Your Children Through Positive Anticipation
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If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Tony discuss the importance of connecting with you children and creating strong connections and secure attachment. When children e…
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Episode 223 Parental Expectations and Children’s Anxiety
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how one parents push and their high and unreasonable exceptions cause great levels of anxiety and long term conditioning for the child. Often Narcissistic personalities have unfinished personal business an overlay on the children to become what they were unable achieve on their own. You can follow Michelle…
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Episode 222 Narcissistic Control and the Chaos Machine Narcissistic Control and the Chaos Machine Take 2
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If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Tony talk about the crazy making chaos that comes from dealing with narcissistic personalities and how to navigate the fallout tha…
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Episode 221 Is It a Preferred Parent, Targeted Parent, Resist and Refuse or Alienation and How to Move Forward
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If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and his guest Patrice Courteau LCSW discuss the various aspects of why a child becomes distant from a parent. Where it ofter starts, p…
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Episode 220 Navigating The Aftermath of Alienation with Shelby Milford
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In this episode Brook and his guest Shelby Milford of Beyond the High Road Coaching discuss the devastating effects of the trauma caused from having a child alienated from them and how to begin to put things back together and have a healthy outlook into the future. You can follow Shelby on instagram @beyondthehighroadcoaching. If you are finding th…
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Episode 219 Revenge and The Unconscious and Conscious Weaponizing Of The Children
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In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how some parents are in revenge mode and use the children as weapons both consciously and unconsciously. Brook and Michelle help the listeners identify some of these patterns so they can change them and further get the children out of the middle of the conflict. You can follow Michelle on instagram @coachm…
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Episode 218 The Disengagement Dilemma
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If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using the Donate button on your podcast page. Enjoy!!! In this episode Brook and Michelle discuss how the disengagement process brings up strong emotions of anxiety, fear and confusion and how to begin to be wit…
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Episode 217 How To Communicate Like a Buddhist Inside and Out With Author Cynthia Kane
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In this episode Brook welcomes special guest Cynthia Kane, author of the book Communicate Like.A Buddhist. Brook and Cynthia discuss the principles of Mindfulness and Self Awareness as the pathway to reduce conflict both internally and externally as well as a pathway to better relationships. To contact Cynthia you can email her @ cynthia@intentiona…
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Episode 216 Divorce and Bankruptcy With Attorney John Varley
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In this episode Brook has special guest Attorney John Varley to discuss bankruptcy before, during or after divorce as a tool to regain financial stability and to help move forward toward a less stressful future. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating…
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Episode 215 The Ghost of Christmas Past is the Ghost of Christmas Now and the Ghost of Christmas Future
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In this episode Brook and Charlie discuss how the recurring patterns and habits of conflict tend to reappear for both you and your Ex. during times of stress, even though you think they have disappeared. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content, commercial free please consider donating using t…
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Episode 214 Rethinking Your Teenager Shifting From Control and Conflict to Structure and Nurture With Author Darby Fox LCSW
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In this episode Brook talks with special guest and author Darby Fox LCSW about the nature and development of the teenage nervous system and the need for an approach to parenting that understands and honors the delicate state and allows for strong boundaries and nurturing relationship when things get choppy. This discussion goes beyond just teens bu…
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Episode 213 Helping the Kids Navigate a Boundaried Parenting Plan
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In this Episode Brook and Michelle discuss how to help children understand and navigate boundaried parenting plans (Parallel Parenting Plan) with schedules they may not like and how to continue to maintain a healthy and attached relationship with them. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue receiving this free content,…
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Episode 212 Holding Boundaries, Keeping Aware, Utilizing Timing and Opportunity (Don’t Miss It)
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In this episode Brook and Michelle have a conversation about the importance of staying aware of when important events and occur and boundaries crossed that you are able to take the proper action in a timely manner so you don't loose an important window that could enhances or change the course or overall outcome of your case. If you are finding thes…
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Episode 210 Navigating Minor's Counsel and GAL's With Attorney Catie E. Young, Esq., CFLS
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In this episode Brook, has special guest Attorney Catie Young to discuss what exactly is Minor's Counsel or a GAL and what exactly is and isn't their job, How to engage with them and what and what not to expect from the process of having one assigned to work with your children. If you are finding these podcast of value and would like to continue re…
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Episode 209 The Formation of Co-Dependency and Waiting for Table Scraps With Charlie Jewett
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In this episode Brook and Charlie delve into how the beginnings of codependency begins as beliefs formed in early childhood traumas and how it manifests in maladaptive expressions in relationships. They discuss the drama triangle and the components that drive the conflict in the various codependent states. If you are finding these podcast of value …
