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ERP 321: How To Tell The Difference Between An Abusive Relationship & A Toxic Dynamic — An Interview With Dr. Amelia Kelley
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Conflicts are opportunities to learn more about your partner, and depending on how you handle them, they can either bring you closer together or lead to a toxic dynamic, or worse, an abusive relationship. If it's the latter, how do you determine whether to stay or leave the relationship?
While some people recognize that they should leave an unhealthy relationship early on, others choose to stay. Dr. Amelia Kelley shed some light on why these people aren't making the same decision. She also discusses warning signs of abuse or potential abuse, as well as how to empower someone in an abusive relationship to stop this dynamic, find support, and heal from trauma.
Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained Hypnotherapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, and meditation and yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a guest podcast presenter focusing on women’s issues and coping with the trauma of unhealthy relationships, as well as a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC, and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is also currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.
In this episode
5:00 The increased domestic violence during the pandemic.
7:02 Dr. Kelley’s “aha!” moment that got her interested in helping people who have experienced trauma.
9:49 Why do people react differently to trauma?
14:38 Signs of a potentially abusive person.
28:50 Significant reasons why people are unable to confront or exit this situation.
38:52 Why highly sensitive people struggle more with decision making.
42:41 How to discern whether or not you should end the relationship and where someone in an abusive relationship can find support.
MentionedWhat I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Internal Family Systems Model (*Wikipedia)
Connect with Amelia KelleyWebsites: ameliakelley.com — insighttimer.com/kelleycounseling
Facebook: facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley/
Twitter: twitter.com/DrAmeliaKelley
Instagram: instagram.com/drameliakelley/
Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins
Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship
Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins
Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/
Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins
Twitter: @DrJessHiggins
Website: drjessicahiggins.com
Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com
If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.
Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.
Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.
Thank you!
*With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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ERP 321: How To Tell The Difference Between An Abusive Relationship & A Toxic Dynamic — An Interview With Dr. Amelia Kelley
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
Manage episode 329600113 series 1970282
Conflicts are opportunities to learn more about your partner, and depending on how you handle them, they can either bring you closer together or lead to a toxic dynamic, or worse, an abusive relationship. If it's the latter, how do you determine whether to stay or leave the relationship?
While some people recognize that they should leave an unhealthy relationship early on, others choose to stay. Dr. Amelia Kelley shed some light on why these people aren't making the same decision. She also discusses warning signs of abuse or potential abuse, as well as how to empower someone in an abusive relationship to stop this dynamic, find support, and heal from trauma.
Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained Hypnotherapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, and meditation and yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a guest podcast presenter focusing on women’s issues and coping with the trauma of unhealthy relationships, as well as a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC, and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is also currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute.
Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website.
In this episode
5:00 The increased domestic violence during the pandemic.
7:02 Dr. Kelley’s “aha!” moment that got her interested in helping people who have experienced trauma.
9:49 Why do people react differently to trauma?
14:38 Signs of a potentially abusive person.
28:50 Significant reasons why people are unable to confront or exit this situation.
38:52 Why highly sensitive people struggle more with decision making.
42:41 How to discern whether or not you should end the relationship and where someone in an abusive relationship can find support.
MentionedWhat I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book)
Internal Family Systems Model (*Wikipedia)
Connect with Amelia KelleyWebsites: ameliakelley.com — insighttimer.com/kelleycounseling
Facebook: facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley/
Twitter: twitter.com/DrAmeliaKelley
Instagram: instagram.com/drameliakelley/
Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins
Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship
Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins
Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/
Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins
Twitter: @DrJessHiggins
Website: drjessicahiggins.com
Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com
If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.
Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.
Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.
Thank you!
*With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.
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