43: BOTTOM-Shaming

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Bes, kung may libreng pa-facial at full body massage sana for every single time you were asked: "Sino ang babae sa relationship niyo? So, ikaw yung nagpapa-dyug? Talaga? Kinakaya mo?" Wow. Super glowing na sana tayo, mga Bes, at ang saya-saya sana ng mga buhay natin dahil madalas pa sa insulin shots ng auntie mong diabetic ang ganyang mga tanong sa atin.
Prevalent sa queer community na sambahin ang mga tops while mababa ang tingin sa mga bottoms. Aminin. A large part of this is due to misogyny and the effects of a patriarchal society kung saan, traditionally, mababa ang tingin sa babae o sa nag-a-assume ng feminine role (yung reciever ng penile penetration). Hindi pa nakatulong dito ang spread of STIs, especially HIV, where there is hardly ever talk about the top who passed them along unknowingly, as is so often the case in transmission, kung bakit nga ba the judgment and shame rested solely on the bottom?
Ang pinaka-masakit siguro sa bottom-shaming culture is that it is so rife within the queer community and it is queers crucifying fellow queers for assuming a role that is part and parcel of our nature. Huwag ganon, Bes!
Samahan ninyo ang kiki namin with our guests Makoy from GAMChat Podcast and Kenny from The Broke Gamer Podcast as we talk about our adventures and misadventures in bottoming. More importantly, sinubukan nating himayin ang effects ng bottom-shaming culture sa dynamics ng queer relationships, and how this enables assault and abuse among queers. Here's to empowering bottoms!
Tindig, mga bottomesa!
Music: Epidemic Sound
Miss Universe Theme: Copyright 2017 Owned by Zero Point Productions, Inc.
Composers: Wayne Sharpe & John Sands
Remix: John Russel Mendizabal
Special Participation throughout this project: Pusa nila Kenny
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