In this episode, Phil and Susie catch up and discuss the US election results and what went wrong for Democrats, how religious beliefs are correlated with being susceptible to disinformation, Project 2025, how we both felt upon learning the results, and how we move forward over the next 4 years. The main part of the episode is Susie's conversation with our favorite expert on everything, Lars and his family. She got the chance to sit down with them at her home over the summer on their way back from picking up their kids from camp, and they have a very interesting conversation, with a special focus on how their family is adjusting to the recent revelation that their son, Alex was trans. They talk a bit about how their still Xtian parents have responded to that revelation and how they responded to Lars and Christie's deconversion, along with some other family member's responses. It's a fascinating and engaging conversation with Lars, Christie, and Alex along with special appearance from Susie's daughter, Audrey, who talks about her perceptions about what she thinks about trans questions and her views on therapy. The conversation concludes with a conversation with a few of the kids about their lives in a non-religious family, and it's truly refreshing! It's a wide ranging conversation that covers a wide variety of subjects. We hope you enjoy. Thanks to Lars and Christie for sharing with us and to Alex and Audrey for contributing and a big shout out to Susie for her solo hosting debut! She is fantastic!! Notes and Resources Graphic Referenced in the intro about disinformation: https://www.project-syndicate.org/commentary/2024-election-surveys-show-trump-voters-misinformed-on-major-issues-by-j-bradford-delong-2024-11? Project 2025: The official site https://www.project2025.org/ An Analytical Overview from Fact Check: https://www.factcheck.org/2024/09/a-guide-to-project-2025/ Join our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions Follow us at https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com and subscribe wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Rate and review the podcast on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts…

After an excessively long break, Phil and Suzie return for a little catch up chat. We talk about our summer breaks, where we both are now in our journeys away from faith and what the future might look like as we continue to move forward and what it means for the podcast and our lives in general. The episode concludes with some random podcast recommendation and a little discussion about religious trauma. We are looking forward to getting back into the groove as we wrap up the year and Season 3 over the next few months. Join our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions Follow us at https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com and subscribe wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Rate and review the podcast on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts…

In this episode, Phil and Susie talk with Laura, a nurse, originally from WV who now lives in CA with her husband, 3 cats and a special needs stepson. She has taken a circuitous journey from Catholic, Presbyterian, Methodist, and Southern Baptist to eventual agnostic, humanistic atheism. She has a Bachelor’s in Marketing from Johnson & Wales University in Providence and did advertising stuff for a few years. She switched gears after her mom’s death and went to nursing school. She has Associates and Master's Degrees in Nursing. She current works in an ICU step down unit in Pasadena. She enjoys reading, hiking, triathaloning (poorly and slowly), traveling, Braves baseball, Steelers and WVU Mountaineer football, cats, and craft beer. She is a published author and is adopted. According to Ancestry.com, Davy Crockett is her great x4 uncle. Laura's Recommended Resources: Podcasts You can’t get to heaven in miniskirt: https://www.heaveninaminiskirt.com/ Graceful Atheist podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/graceful-atheist-podcast/id1456800368 Divorcing religion podcast: https://www.divorcing-religion.com/religious-trauma-podcast Deconversion podcast: https://thedeconversionpodcast.com/ Thinking atheist podcast : https://www.thethinkingatheist.com/ Books Good without God God Delusion Skeptics Annotated Bible Join our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions Follow us at https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com and subscribe wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Rate and review the podcast on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcast…

In this episode, Phil and Susie explore the topic of prophecy. We discuss what prophecy is, what criteria something needs to meet in order to be considered "fulfilled" prophecy, examples of "fulfilled" prophecy from the bible and determining if they meet the criteria, modern false prophets, and how the gift of prophecy has changed over the centuries. Be warned, there is a lot of bible in this episode and we compare the biblical text to historical data to help us determine if the bible really does have fulfilled prophecy. There are a lot of links in the show notes section if you'd like to dig into this further. We also wanted to give our listeners the opportunity to support a fellow creator within the community, Tim Mills of Harmonic Atheist, who is in the midst of a difficult family and legal situation and needs some real support and help. You can connect with Tim at any of the links below to support his channels and to make a donation to help him in this time of need. One time PayPal: paypal.me/harmonictim Venmo: @harmonicatheist Zelle email: harmonicatheist@yahoo.com GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-tim-stay-full-time-on-harmonic-atheist Monthly https://www.patreon.com/harmonicatheist Tim’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@HarmonicAtheist https://linktr.ee/harmonicatheist Show Notes and Sources https://www.nytimes.com/2021/02/11/us/christian-prophets-predictions.html&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1716648572040904&usg=AOvVaw1Jw347u5kFJt5vioK1Asuy https://sites.google.com/site/errorsinthebible/failed-prophecies/6-failed-proph https://www.tyndalebulletin.org/article/29192-prediction-and-foreknowledge-in-ezekiel-s-prophecy-against-tyre.pdf https://www.gotquestions.org/Tyre-rebuilt-prophecy.html https://sites.google.com/site/errorsinthebible/failed-prophecies/the-bible-s-broken-promises https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Predictions_and_claims_for_the_Second_Coming https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/apocalypse/explanation/bdaniel.html https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/apocalypse/primary/white.html https://www.modernreformation.org/resources/articles/the-mod-the-messianic-prophecies-in-the-book-of-daniel https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Book_of_Revelation https://www.craiggreenfield.com/blog/moderndayprophets Psalm 22 video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pKRzo_wtSwk Join our Facebook page at www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions Follow us at https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com and subscribe wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Rate and review the podcast on YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcast…

In this episode, airing on Mother's Day (which we didn't realize at the time of recording), Phil and Suzie chat with Diane, who is a long-time Virginia resident, a mom to a brilliant nearly-25-year-old, and completely owned by a big, goofy black lab and two cats – one perfect angel and one complete ass. She adores them all. She also loves to swim, write, and travel, and she’s fascinated by architecture, especially old churches. Some have said that’s God reaching out to her, but that just makes her snort. An agnostic atheist since her late teens (but a doubter since childhood), she was indoctrinated and raised in the Methodist church. She enjoys hearing about others’ spiritual journeys, even when she doesn’t understand them. We have a fascinating conversation about her upbringing, her transition from indoctrination to atheism, and the freedom, hope, and joy that she has found outside of religion and faith. Diane is the ultimate example of what many people strive for while deconstructing, namely the desire to be free, be herself, and connect with people on her own terms. Diane writes on her blog, Breathing Underwater. You can connect with her at https://breathingunder-water.blogspot.com/ Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, X, and YouTube @flawedtheology Join us on our Facebook group Dangerous Questions Listen to us on our website https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com and on all major podcast platforms. Rate and review us on Spotify, Apple, YouTube Music.…

In this episode, Phil and Suzie talk with Sarah Miller Mott, a former preacher/leader under the Foursquare Denomination. She is a published author of poetry and working on getting her novels that she has written over the years published. She tells us all about her very interesting story, growing up Lutheran in North Dakota, how she deconstructed, became an atheist, and then went back to Xtianity in a whole new way, and then after being misled and manipulated by the church, deconstructed and deconverted again. She tells the story how she will never go back to being a believer and why. Her story is fascinating and engaging and you will certainly benefit from hearing it. You can find her published works on Amazon and Follow her on Tiktok @authorsarahmillermott : The Collected Poetry of The Girl in the Corner The Collected Poetry of The Girl in the Corner Vol 2 A Short Tale of a Happy Trail https://linktr.ee/theycallmesars Follow Us on Social Media @flawedtheology Join our Facebook group "Dangerous Questions" Listen to us on Spotify, Amazon, Apple Podcast, YouTube, Stitcher, and all the major podcast platforms.…

In this episode, Phil and Suzie talk with Darante' Lamar in an incredible, wide-ranging, and passionate discussion about his faith background, his life in ministry, what lead to his deconversion, and the impact of faith and the journey away from faith on him as an Black man and the black community. Bio: Darante’ LaMar's journey from serving as a leader in both charismatic megachurches and hyper spiritual storefront churches, to embracing a life of secularism and reason, offers a unique perspective on the evolution of faith in contemporary society. With a background that includes virtually every role within the ministry, Darante’ brings a comprehensive understanding of the inner workings of religious organizations and the impact they have on individuals and communities. Currently, Darante’ is a Global Project Manager and DEI executive in the healthcare industry. He serves, alongside his wife, as the managing partner of DLDD World Group - a nonprofit committed to people centric projects, programs and progress. He is the author of three published books: Significant, Parenting on Purpose, and Memphis: The Last Supper and three upcoming books, Making The Jump, Christ Held Up and The Case for Religion Link to the "Hell" video referenced in the episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-mQwkFBgaY Where to Find Darante: Social Media https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbROOoAVy40Cv5NtKccRClg https://www.facebook.com/darante.martin/ https://twitter.com/DaranteLaMarX https://www.tiktok.com/@darantelamar7 https://www.dldd.us Books https://www.amazon.com/s?i=stripbooks&rh=p_27%3ADarante%27+LaMar&s=relevancerank&text=Darante%27+LaMar&ref=dp_byline_sr_book_1 Significant - https://www.amazon.com/Significant-diffidence-confidence-Darante-LaMar/dp/1506105572/ref=monarch_sidesheet Follow on Facebook, X, Instagram, and YouTube @flawedtheology Join our Facebook group, Dangerous Questions https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com…

In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss the correlation between religious ideology and the ideologies of authoritarianism. This was suggested to us as a It’s a Feature, not a Bug” idea, but we decided to expand it to a full episode topic, because there’s a lot of interesting things to talk about! Thanks to one of our listeners who suggested the topic. Data Nuggets Segment: Is there intelligent life on other planets? Opinions of the religious and non-religious. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2021/07/28/religious-americans-less-likely-to-believe-intelligent-life-exists-on-other-planets/ Sources: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religion_and_authoritarianism https://theconversation.com/trumps-use-of-religion-follows-playbook-of-authoritarian-leaning-leaders-the-world-over-140050 https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3389201/ https://oxfordre.com/politics/display/10.1093/acrefore/9780190228637.001.0001/acrefore-9780190228637-e-667 https://one.npr.org/?sharedMediaId=1236709842:1236709862…

In this episode, Phil and Suzie talk with Helen Greene, Ambassador and Fundraising Coordinator for Recovering from Religion. In this wide-ranging conversation, Helen talks with us about her interesting journey away from faith from her Catholic upbringing, discovery of paganism, and eventual deconstruction to skepticism and atheism. Helen comes from a diverse background of beliefs. Raised Roman Catholic, then rejecting the church to move into paganism, she was a pagan high priestess for 10 years during her time in that faith (which was 13 years). Eventually realizing through education and skeptical inquiry into herself, she came to the conclusion she had no solid evidence for her beliefs – which brought her to a more humanistic and realistic worldview. Still studying psychology even out of college, she spends her time trying to understand human behavior, the emotional and psychological understandings of ourselves, and what forms our perspectives and why. She is an ambassador for Recovering from Religion, head of their fundraising team, and one of the co-hosts of their Monday night podcast RfRx. She also volunteers at the Atheist Community of Austin, a rotating co-host of the podcast the Non Prophets, hosts a TikTok live The Queerly Godless Feminist via the ACA,and one Women Atheist Unload and Global Atheists at the Skeptic Haven YouTube channel. For fun, she enjoys horror (esp cosmic horror) and sci-fi movies, video gaming, and diving deep into made-up world-building stories such as the Lord of the Rings. Helen's Links: www.recoveringfromreligion.org The Atheist Community of Austin https://atheist-community.org/ https://youtube.com/@TheNonProphetsACA?si=aR9VmZsuZwHgeQTB https://youtube.com/@SkepticHaven?si=hcvsBRbJkxioSh9p https://www.tiktok.com/@hellsbellssrq?_t=8kUAFrm9k6c&_r=1…

In our first standalone Flawed Theology in Real Life segment, Phil and Susie analyze a clip where the concept of God creating evil is compared to the realities of cold and darkness. See if you think this theology is flawed and why? Source Material: https://www.facebook.com/reel/3477048449227507

As deconstruction and deconversion are becoming more prevalent in our world, the institutions of Xtianity are flailing to craft a response that will attempt to stem the tide of people leaving the faith, the church, and god himself. The “explanations” of why people are leaving, of course, they are not based in reality or facts, because most have never spoken with anyone who’s actually left to find out their real reasons. In this episode, Phil and Suzie debunk many of these common “myths” that the church attempts to sell as the real reasons for deconstruction. Show Notes & Links https://relevantmagazine.com/current/skillets-john-cooper-its-time-to-declare-war-against-this-deconstruction-christian-movement/ Data Nuggets: Catholics and Climate Change https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/09/28/the-pope-is-concerned-about-climate-change-how-do-us-catholics-feel-about-it/ It's Not a Bug, It's a Feature: Conspiracy Theories https://www.deseret.com/indepth/2021/3/28/22334183/what-group-of-christians-most-likely-believe-conspiracy-theories-white-evangelicals-qanon-faith/ https://www.economist.com/graphic-detail/2021/07/27/what-drives-belief-in-conspiracy-theories-a-lack-of-religion-or-too-much Follow on Facebook, X, Instagram, and YouTube @flawedtheolgy Join our Facebook group, Dangerous Questions…

In this bonus segment from episode 1, Phil and Susie talk about her cat, a fatal illness, and how it all relates to flawed theology. Enjoy!

We are back for Season 3 and we are excited to be here! In this premiere episode, Phil and Susie catch on things since we took a break for the holidays and talk about what's to come in Season 3! We will introduce two new segments for this season, "Data Nuggets" and "It's Not a Bug, It's a Feature!" Data Nuggets Link: https://www.npr.org/2024/01/24/1226371734/religious-nones-are-now-the-largest-single-group-in-the-u-s It's not a bug, it's a feature! https://www.whsv.com/2024/02/02/ruckersville-church-pastor-arrested-charged-with-sexual-battery/ Over the break, Phil also had the chance to talk Stacie Grahn, aka Apostacie on Instagram and the host of the "Stacie's Mom Podcast" on YouTube. We had an incredible discussion about her life, faith background, and eventual deconstruction from charismatic christianity. Stacie Bio: Stacie Grahn was raised in a charismatic born-again Christian environment. In 2019, she began questioning her beliefs, which eventually led her to embrace atheism by 2021. Now an active voice online, Stacie shares her story to support others grappling with their faith. Together with her mom, who also transitioned away from religion, they host a podcast discussing their own processes as well as inviting other people on who have had similar experiences. Stacie lives in British Columbia Canada with her husband and 3 boys. Stacie's links: https://www.instagram.com/apostacie/ Stacie's Mom Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@thestaciesmompodcast Secular Soapbox: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQ1xdPR2h5U&list=PLK-HLKx4ZI5vx4m0ebcVnqARHE7FKgNac https://linktr.ee/apostacie Stacie's Resources: Thinking Atheist: https://www.thethinkingatheist.com/ MindShift: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZ1tYgwUDYAqGSE7RGLx5CQ Recovering from Religion: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/ The Line: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIv3LvN_0CNzMpSrTF9naNA Street Epistemology: https://www.youtube.com/@magnabosco210 Paulogia: https://www.youtube.com/@Paulogia Flawed Theology Links https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions…

In this episode, Phil and Susie wrap up the season with another Ask Us Anything session. We are excited to have a guest cohost, Arline from the Graceful Atheist Podcast!! We really had a blast with Arline and are so honored that she spent some time with us. Her insights and answers to your questions are just fantastic!! We received a lot of great questions, which are listed below with timestamps: 8:40: Can you help me understand what the apologists think about verses such as “Happy is the one who seizes your infants and dashes them against the rocks?” And other garbage things? How do you not get bitter and angry as you deconstruct? 18:45: What seemingly-trivial ways have you reclaimed your identity that was suppressed as a Christian? Examples: watching R-rated movies, swearing, celebrating Halloween, wearing bikinis, doing things just because you like doing them, etc? 24:13: I would love to hear about books you recommend on the subject of dealing with leftover fear of hell. Also, which of the sects would you consider most insidious, and which, in your opinion, is more insidious than the majority of people realize? 30:11: My question is how to cope with stress after leaving religion? A lot of people pray when things are going bad because they feel that faith will relieve stress. I think it would be good if you shared strategies for dealing with emotions like fear and anxiety without religion. 37:04: Why or what caused you to change your beliefs? How was the transition? (how long it took, how it felt during & how it impacted those close to you). If you experienced trauma due to religion, how that experience impacted your life at the time of impact up to present life. Coping mechanisms for dealing with ptsd.Why or what caused you to change your beliefs? How was the transition? (how long it took, how it felt during & how it impacted those close to you). If you experienced trauma due to religion, how that experience impacted your life at the time of impact up to present life. Coping mechanisms for dealing with PTSD. 48:20: How do you find solace in death without belief in an afterlife? (If you do find any sort of comfort regarding that! It’s one of the biggest reasons I turned to religion for a long time.) 53:36: How or should you even come out to family and friends and if you do, how do you navigate the experience and keep your sanity? I live in a small Texas town which should say it all. I am also a small business owner which compounds my angst about this topic. 59.16: Why are women "second class" and why do they accept that? The whole serve your master, obey your husband is swallowed by so many SMART women. Religion is just so highly macho and being told from birth that you are there to serve must be so hard to recover from. For those who managed to escape, when was the seed planted that women are people too and what was the last straw that allowed them to get out? 1:09: Given that evidence suggests humans have no soul and therefore no free will, how should we change the way we treat others or hold them responsible for the harm they do? Show Notes and Links Graceful Atheist Podcast: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/graceful-atheist-podcast-1136736 GAP Facebook Group/ Deconversion Anonymous: https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion The Thinking Atheist: https://www.thethinkingatheist.com/ Dangerous Questions Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/dangerousquestions Like and Subscribe to the Podcast on your favorite platform or at https://www.flawedtheologypodcast.com…

In this episode, we will discuss the idea of “the soul” and how it relates to the afterlife. Is there evidence for the existence of the soul? If the soul doesn’t exist, then what does this mean for the idea of the “afterlife”. Follow this thread further to make the point that basing one’s life on the potential eternality of our existence after death is flawed and how and why to make the most of this life, if it’s truly the only one we have. Show Notes and Links: https://www.britannica.com/topic/soul-religion-and-philosophy https://qz.com/789780/neuroscience-and-psychology-have-rendered-it-basically-unnecessary-to-have-a-soul https://qz.com/1569158/neuroscientists-read-unconscious-brain-activity-to-predict-decisions https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2021/11/23/views-on-the-afterlife/ https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/07/110714103828.htm https://www.cambridge.org/engage/api-gateway/coe/assets/orp/resource/item/64dab58669bfb8925af0af8e/original/consciousness-and-afterlife-in-the-evolution-of-intelligence.pd https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6172100/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E4Tw21YBww Seeing Through Christianity by Bill Zuersher https://www.amazon.com/Seeing-through-Christianity-Critique-Evidence/dp/1499018495 Evolution of God by Robert Wright https://www.amazon.com/Seeing-through-Christianity-Critique-Evidence/dp/1499018495 Join Our Facebook Group "Dangerous Questions" Follow Us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube https://www.flaweedtheologypodcast.com…