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Here at Christopher Lochhead: Follow Your Different, we’ve had the privilege of engaging in conversations that transcend the ordinary, delving into the depths of what truly makes us tick. On this episode, we sat down with Bruce Feiler, an acclaimed New York Times best-selling author, to explore his work, "Life Is in the Transitions." Bruce Feiler is a renowned American author, television personality, and speaker known for his insightful and thought-provoking work on family dynamics, religion, and contemporary culture. He is the author of several New York Times bestsellers, including "Walking the Bible," "The Council of Dads," and "Life Is in the Transitions." Feiler's work often blends personal narrative with broader cultural analysis, and he has been a popular columnist for publications like The New York Times. This wasn't your typical interview; it was a real, raw conversation about the seismic shifts we all face and how we can navigate them with grace and resilience. We believe that people are now more than ever being rocked by their life quakes, and hope that Bruce’s words could help us once again. You’re listening to Christopher Lochhead: Follow Your Different. We are the real dialogue podcast for people with a different mind. So get your mind in a different place, and hey ho, let’s go. Bruce Feiler on the Non-Linear Journey of Life Bruce's personal journey is a testament to the power of embracing life's unpredictability. From battling cancer to supporting his father through Parkinson's disease, he's no stranger to what he calls "life quakes." These are the massive, often unexpected events that shake us to our core and challenge the linear narrative we've been sold about how life is "supposed" to go. During our talk, Bruce recounted a moment at his 30th college reunion that sparked a revelation. As he moderated a panel of distinguished classmates, he saw firsthand the universal struggle to maintain the facade of a perfect, linear life trajectory. This experience, coupled with his own, led him to question the societal pressures that bind us to outdated life narratives. Bruce Feiler on the Myth of the Midlife Crisis One of the most enlightening parts of our discussion centered on the concept of the midlife crisis. Bruce debunked this myth, pointing out the flawed research and biases behind it. He argued that we need to update our understanding of life transitions to reflect the modern, non-linear world we live in—a world where change is the only constant. We also emphasized the importance of proactive life design. We must acknowledge and navigate through life's disruptions, which often come at us like a "car pileup," multiple and simultaneous. It's about learning to dance in the rain, rather than waiting for the storm to pass. Life Quakes: Voluntary and Involuntary Bruce explained that life quakes are frequent disruptors, with most being manageable. However, about 53% of these quakes are involuntary—like a spouse cheating or losing a job—while 47% are voluntary, such as changing religion or leaving a job. Millennials, he noted, are more inclined to seek change, while older generations may feel more stuck. The pandemic, a collective involuntary life quake, has heightened our sensitivity to change. Bruce stressed that while the quake may be involuntary, the life transition that follows must be voluntary. It's about taking back control and making the decision to navigate through the transition effectively. “If we look at life transitions as periods that we have to suffer our way through, we are wasting half of our life. If we look at them as periods, they’re going to be difficult and painful, but there’s also opportunities for growth and renewal. That’s the story of your life.” – Bruce Feiler Bruce's book doesn't just lay out the problem; it offers a toolkit for navigating life transitions. He provides practical guidance on what to expect, the phases involved, and the tools to get through it.
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Nội dung được cung cấp bởi Christopher Lochhead. Tất cả nội dung podcast bao gồm các tập, đồ họa và mô tả podcast đều được Christopher Lochhead hoặc đối tác nền tảng podcast của họ tải lên và cung cấp trực tiếp. Nếu bạn cho rằng ai đó đang sử dụng tác phẩm có bản quyền của bạn mà không có sự cho phép của bạn, bạn có thể làm theo quy trình được nêu ở đây https://vi.player.fm/legal.
Here at Christopher Lochhead: Follow Your Different, we’ve had the privilege of engaging in conversations that transcend the ordinary, delving into the depths of what truly makes us tick. On this episode, we sat down with Bruce Feiler, an acclaimed New York Times best-selling author, to explore his work, "Life Is in the Transitions." Bruce Feiler is a renowned American author, television personality, and speaker known for his insightful and thought-provoking work on family dynamics, religion, and contemporary culture. He is the author of several New York Times bestsellers, including "Walking the Bible," "The Council of Dads," and "Life Is in the Transitions." Feiler's work often blends personal narrative with broader cultural analysis, and he has been a popular columnist for publications like The New York Times. This wasn't your typical interview; it was a real, raw conversation about the seismic shifts we all face and how we can navigate them with grace and resilience. We believe that people are now more than ever being rocked by their life quakes, and hope that Bruce’s words could help us once again. You’re listening to Christopher Lochhead: Follow Your Different. We are the real dialogue podcast for people with a different mind. So get your mind in a different place, and hey ho, let’s go. Bruce Feiler on the Non-Linear Journey of Life Bruce's personal journey is a testament to the power of embracing life's unpredictability. From battling cancer to supporting his father through Parkinson's disease, he's no stranger to what he calls "life quakes." These are the massive, often unexpected events that shake us to our core and challenge the linear narrative we've been sold about how life is "supposed" to go. During our talk, Bruce recounted a moment at his 30th college reunion that sparked a revelation. As he moderated a panel of distinguished classmates, he saw firsthand the universal struggle to maintain the facade of a perfect, linear life trajectory. This experience, coupled with his own, led him to question the societal pressures that bind us to outdated life narratives. Bruce Feiler on the Myth of the Midlife Crisis One of the most enlightening parts of our discussion centered on the concept of the midlife crisis. Bruce debunked this myth, pointing out the flawed research and biases behind it. He argued that we need to update our understanding of life transitions to reflect the modern, non-linear world we live in—a world where change is the only constant. We also emphasized the importance of proactive life design. We must acknowledge and navigate through life's disruptions, which often come at us like a "car pileup," multiple and simultaneous. It's about learning to dance in the rain, rather than waiting for the storm to pass. Life Quakes: Voluntary and Involuntary Bruce explained that life quakes are frequent disruptors, with most being manageable. However, about 53% of these quakes are involuntary—like a spouse cheating or losing a job—while 47% are voluntary, such as changing religion or leaving a job. Millennials, he noted, are more inclined to seek change, while older generations may feel more stuck. The pandemic, a collective involuntary life quake, has heightened our sensitivity to change. Bruce stressed that while the quake may be involuntary, the life transition that follows must be voluntary. It's about taking back control and making the decision to navigate through the transition effectively. “If we look at life transitions as periods that we have to suffer our way through, we are wasting half of our life. If we look at them as periods, they’re going to be difficult and painful, but there’s also opportunities for growth and renewal. That’s the story of your life.” – Bruce Feiler Bruce's book doesn't just lay out the problem; it offers a toolkit for navigating life transitions. He provides practical guidance on what to expect, the phases involved, and the tools to get through it.
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