Can You Have High Confidence AND Low Self-esteem?

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No way do confident people have low self-esteem, right? Except... maybe you do. No one talks about the way this seeming paradox happens or how it holds you back in life and work. Let's shine the flashlight into that dark corner of your psyche so you can break the self sabotage cycle starting now.

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  1. Confidence is outward facing, based on observable abilities. You get feedback through achievements. You are comfortable with your skills and can adapt them to the needs of the situation, aren't afraid of failure, are willing to ask for help and empower others.
  2. Self-esteem in inward facing and tied to your feelings of worthiness. It's based on things we were taught and conclusions we drew from life experiences. These become cemented into beliefs about what we need to do to earn love or acceptance.
  3. You can use high confidence in a negative way to protect yourself from feelings of low self-esteem. This shows up as a constant quest to be of service instead of taking action aligned with what you really want or need.
  4. Learn to embrace the fact that you intrinsically have value, without needing to prove anything.
  5. Catch negative thoughts related to low self-esteem and replace them with facts around your areas of confidence.

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