MEN - We Need You! The Indispensable role of Male Allies

Building Up Women In Property

Men, we need you. If we want to continue to be a thriving, sustainable, and profitable industry, we need to get more women into this industry and strive for gender equity. The only way we are going to get there is if we have the support of male allies to help drive that change.

The Changing Landscape

Recently, I was at a NAWIC event, where we were discussing and sharing stories. Someone asked me, "Is the industry changing? Are we actually seeing positive outcomes for women in the industry?" The answer isn't straightforward. There are days, weeks, and months where I see positive steps in the right direction—people engaging in meaningful conversations and initiatives gaining traction and creating positive results. But there are also times when it feels like all that hard work is being reversed. It often feels like it’s two steps forward and one step back.

The Role of Male Allies

When we talk about gender equity, we appreciate that organisations and leaders want to be seen as driving change. Most of these people have good intentions, but intentions will only get you so far. This is where we need leadership—CEOs and executive teams to champion gender equity. Women have been advocating for changes that address systemic issues for decades with varying levels of success. But in the last 50 years, not much has shifted fundamentally. Men continue to hold the majority of positions of power, especially in the property and construction industry.

The Challenges Women Face

1. Gender Stereotypes: Young people perceive construction and property as spaces for men.

2. The Broken Rung: The barrier where women struggle to step into that first leadership role.

3. The Leaky Pipeline: The gradual loss of women through different stages of their career, particularly when considering starting families.

4. The Glass Cliff: Women are more likely to be placed into leadership roles during times of crisis and instability.

5. The Second Shift: Unpaid domestic labour and responsibilities that often fall on women, on top of their paid employment.

Steps to Being a Male Ally

Here's how you can be an effective male ally:

1. Awareness: Recognise the existence of gender inequity and understand the systemic barriers.

2. Advocacy: Use your voice and position to promote gender equity and push for organisational and industry change.

3. Empathy: Actively listen to women’s experiences and validate them without judgement

4. Concrete Action: Take tangible steps like mentoring, sponsorship, and pushing for equitable policies.

5. Accountability: Hold yourself and others responsible for perpetuating the issues surrounding gender inequality.

6. Continuous Learning: Stay educated on gender issues, remain open to feedback, and be prepared to adapt and change.

The Long Game

Being a male ally means engaging in issues and having often hard and uncomfortable conversations to understand the real lived experiences of women in the industry. It’s not a tick-box exercise or a short burst of activity. This is a long game. Show up day in and day out, hold that standard, drive change, and keep repeating until we achieve our goal.

As I said, we need you. We need men in our industry to drive this change because, as women, we will not get there on our own.

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