Ep 5 You Cannot Seek a Wife Who Serves Her Husband

Chasing Masculinity

In this episode of Chasing Masculinity, we challenge the traditional notion of marriage roles and unpack Rule 5: You Cannot Seek a Wife Who Serves Her Husband. Host Colton Wutzke delves into why marriage should be rooted in mutual love, respect, and service, rejecting outdated stereotypes of dominance based submission.

Drawing on Ephesians 5:25, learn how true masculinity lies in serving your spouse selflessly—just as Christ served the Church. This episode also explores the societal shifts and historical contexts that have shaped our perceptions of marriage and why relationships thrive when both partners work together to build a strong, faith-based bond.

Through practical advice, learn actionable steps to foster mutual servitude, such as daily acts of kindness, open communication, and supporting each other’s goals. Whether you’re single, in a relationship, or married, this episode challenges you to reflect on how you can serve those you love with intentionality and humility.

Tune in to discover how building a partnership based on faith and mutual growth leads to stronger, more fulfilling relationships.

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