7. The High Value Man vs. Low Value Man with Jacob Lucas

Flirtations! with Benjamin, the Flirt Coach

On the show today, we'll be talking with Jacob Lucas all about the high value man/self aware man vs. low value man/ego man!

We open the episode with a discussion on the social dynamics of dating (really interesting!) and I ask if these social dynamics are particular to hetero dating or can they extend to queer dating, as well?

Then, we get into the high value/self aware man and low value/ego man. What are the traits and qualities of each archetype? How do they date? What types of dating behaviors do each exemplify? How can you spot them? Are you maybe with a high value or low value man right now?

After the main interview, "Ask the Flirt Coach" is back and we'll hear from a listener about whether they might be coming on too strong early on? What does that look like, any way? If you feel you move fast with a new connection, how can you slow things down a bit? You know I got you!

The conversation continues on Swell with bonus clips, extended interviews, and more! After each episode, head on over to Swell and let's keep flirting! In the bonus clip for this episode, I asked Jacob, where can we meet the high value man? Hear his response on Swell: https://www.swellcast.com/BenjaminCamras

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About our guest: Jacob Lucas is a professional dating coach and author from the UK. Jacob favours a more psychological, analytical approach to dating and has great success in educating many people on how to be successful in their dating lives. In addition to helping people find love, Jacob has worked with global brands, news publications and dating apps giving expert dating and relationship advice.

You can connect with Jacob on the internet on his fantastic Instagram page, on TikTok, or via his website. You can also reach Jacob via email, [e-mail].

Thank you for listening! I couldn't do this without two amazing collaborators! Thank you to Corey Claxton for mixing down and editing each episode to perfection. You can connect with Corey on Instagram and via email [e-mail]. Thank you to Joey Collins for the original music you hear in each episode. You can connect with Joey on Instagram and Soundcloud!