24: Franco & Amrit | Dating Your Dream Girl as a Minority

Girls Chase Podcast

Welcome back to another episode of Dating Mechanics! I’m Varoon Rajah, and today we explore a topic that frequently comes up on the Girls Chase boards – the question of dating your dream girl as a minority. PODCAST HIGHLIGHTS 02:25 – Intro to the podcast with Franco and Amrit 03:20 – Franco talks about how guys complain on the boards about the minority issue, and never take the advice they’re given. The same questions are repeatedly asked, and the same advice is repeatedly given but ignored, reinforcing negativity. 04:30 – Introducing Amrit, and how Franco and Amrit met. Amrit talks about his background in India and San Diego, and how he didn’t have the American cultural experience. 06:15 – Differences in mindsets between America and India, and how it’s important to adapt to a new culture. Most guys that struggle don’t change their mindset. Amrit was able to get his desired girls without joining any social scenes. 07:15 – How Amrit approached, met, and dated his first hot girl in the United States. It turned into a four year relationship. 09:35 – We reiterate cultural adaptation to break through the mold, and we talk about keeping attractive parts of your native culture with attractive parts of the new culture. Amrit talks about how important family is to him, and how girls he dates always appreciate it. 11:10 – A lot of Indian guys see their family background as a negative thing, and resent it. Amrit does not, his family keeps him grounded. Family upbringing translates into excellent fundamentals. 13:30 – How Amrit views interracial dating and dating white American girls, and how he’s embraced both Indian and American cultures to make himself exotic. Your cultural background is your greatest asset and can make you an exotic gem. 15:30 – Guys on the boards imagine that only blond-haired, blue-eyed guys can date hot white girls; however, we share in our example that these same girls say they don’t like these guys. 16:20 – The importance of niching, and realizing the possibility of dating new kinds of women through experience and trial. It’s important to brand and package yourself as an exotic minority. Amrit uses websites as examples. 18:00 – Presenting yourself as a top notch guy in a certain category 19:00 – Amrit’s first cold approach resulted in a four year relationship, which taught him to always approach and take shots. Franco shares how he’s seen some guys who have tried and attained success, shifting their mindset. The guys who fail inevitably keep a negative mindset, whereas Amrit views himself as a prize. 20:55 – The importance of fundamentals and presentation. You have to dress like how you want people to see you. Amrit is always the best dressed Indian guy in the room, making himself the top tier guy not only of his category, but of the room. 22:10 – Indian/brown guys don’t have a lot of competition, which is a great opportunity! Girls love to show off guys to their friends, and minority guys can use their exotic quality to the fullest. 24:30 – Most Indian guys focus on complicated advanced problems rather than simple fixes in fundamentals that would net them the desired results. 25:10 – Accept that there are guys of your race succeeding. Usually the top notch minorities and brown guys are killing it and swimming in pussy. 26:10 – Amrit got his college dream girl ten years later. He never saw her as a real possibility, but he became the prize and got her on the first date. Setting up a process made the difference. 27:45 – Keep trying, failing, and tweaking your system. Use your resources to fill in the gaps of knowledge. 28:45 – Amrit’s Absolute Abundance mentality. Listen online: https://www.girlschase.com/content/franco-amrit-dating-your-dream-girl-minority-podcast LEARN SOMETHING GOOD? SUBSCRIBE AND REVIEW! If you enjoy the podcast, please subscribe in iTunes and leave a review. This helps us reach more ears, and casts your vote for “Yes! Make more episodes!”