Painting a Picture of Trust

Plan P

In this final episode of the year, hosts Sarah Pollak and Quinn Faison guide parents through the unique challenges of the holiday season's grand finale: New Year's Eve. While Christmas often leans towards family-focused tranquility, New Year's Eve, particularly with teenage and young adult children, requires a different approach.

Sarah and Quinn emphasize the importance of candid conversations with teens and young adults about the significance of a safe New Year's Eve. As children grow older, their desire for more freedom and participation in celebratory events increases. It becomes crucial for parents to discuss responsible drinking, safety measures, awareness of surroundings, and pre-planned arrangements (such as calling an Uber or staying at a friend's house).

Recognizing that New Year's Eve is one of the most dangerous holidays, the hosts encourage parents not to shy away from this vital conversation of safety. The ultimate goal is to create a safe and open space for children to be honest about their plans. As the year draws to a close, Sarah and Quinn extend warm wishes for Happy Holidays and a joyous New Year. See you in 2024!

This Week’s Practice: What Picture are You Painting?

This week's practice centers around the crucial theme of trust and safety in conversations about New Year's Eve with your teenage and young adult children. As you engage in these discussions, be mindful of your responses. Making an effort to create an environment where your child feels safe enough to open up is key.

Once your child shares their plans, resist the urge to overreact. Trust that your kids are capable of handling themselves appropriately. It's a delicate balance—nurturing trust through open communication and respecting their growing independence. This practice encourages parents to foster an atmosphere where safety and honesty coexist, ensuring a meaningful and secure start to the new year for everyone involved.

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