RJ Gray: Balancing a Healthy Work & Professional Life

The Intentional Agribusiness Leader Podcast

In this thought-provoking episode of the Intentional Agribusiness Leader podcast, host Mark Jewell welcomes RJ Gray, CEO of the Oklahoma Cooperative Council, to discuss the importance of being intentional in leadership and life. The conversation delves deep into personal growth, strategic thinking, and maintaining a healthy balance between professional and family life.

RJ Gray serves as the President and CEO of the Oklahoma Agricultural Cooperative Council, a statewide and regional trade association that is the leading voice on legislative and regulatory matters for agricultural cooperatives and aims to educate cooperative boards of directors and employees to enhance their understanding of cooperatives and advance their development. RJ began with the OACC in 2006 before advancing his career on the Ag Customer Team at Land O’Lakes in 2012. After two years with Land O’Lakes, RJ returned to the OACC with an enormous opportunity to continue to serve Oklahoma cooperatives and the surrounding region where he remains today. RJ is a 2005 graduate of Oklahoma State University with a degree in agricultural education, service, and leadership.

He has been recognized as an outstanding alumnus from the College of Agriculture- Agricultural Leadership Division. He is a certified John Maxwell speaker, trainer, and coach, a Myers-Briggs Practitioner, and a Gallup Strengths Coach. He also holds other certifications in various leadership and organizational growth programs. Originally from Ripley, Oklahoma, RJ now resides in Oklahoma City with his beautiful wife of 20 years, Jecole, two sons, Hudson and Beckett, and heavenly daughter, Audrey.

RJ Gray shares his candid insights on practicing intentionality and its foundation in action and reflection. Understanding personal purpose and values comes up as a key to being intentional. Additionally, RJ brings a unique perspective on how leaders can positively influence their organizations by setting a personal example.

Key points on team communication, personal value, and the impact of leadership are highlighted. The episode also touches on embracing healthy habits, the impact of everyday leadership decisions, and how to foster a collaborative environment amidst challenging times.

Key Takeaways:

• Intentionality in leadership involves a commitment to action and regular reflection on personal and organizational goals.
• Personal growth is crucial for leaders, as it raises their 'leadership lid' and empowers them to better serve their teams.
• The balance between work and family life is attainable through clear priorities, setting boundaries, and creating meaningful experiences.
• Open dialogue and respect for differing opinions are vital in overcoming the current adversarial culture.
• Healthy habits are essential for maintaining the energy and focus required for effective leadership and should be incorporated into daily routines.

Notable Quotes:

• "Intention requires thinking. As a leader, you have to take time to think."
• "What your kids see you do in exception, your employees will do an excess."
• "Every single one of us sells ourselves short of what's actually possible because we tepid on ourselves."
• "The best leader is a self-aware leader."
• "Your ability to run your organization is only going to be as high as your leadership lid."

Listeners are encouraged to tune into the full episode for more in-depth discussion on intentional leadership and personal growth. Stay subscribed for more episodes that bring valuable insights for agribusiness leaders and professionals.