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In this episode, we delve into the concept of being "qualified" in the workplace, examining who gets labeled as such, who doesn't, and the underlying reasons. We explore "competency checking"—the practice of scrutinizing individuals' abilities—and how it disproportionately affects underrepresented groups, often going unnoticed or unchallenged. Our discussion aims to redefine qualifications in a fair, equitable, and actionable manner. Our guest, Shari Dunn , is an accomplished journalist, former attorney, news anchor, CEO, university professor, and sought-after speaker. She has been recognized as Executive of the Year and a Woman of Influence, with her work appearing in Fortune Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, Ad Age, and more. Her new book, Qualified: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work , unpacks what it truly means to be deserving and capable—and why systemic barriers, not personal deficits, are often the real problem. Her insights challenge the narratives that hold so many of us back and offer practical solutions for building a more equitable future. Together, we can build workplaces and communities that don’t just reflect the world we live in, but the one we want to create. A world where being qualified is about recognizing the talent and potential that’s been overlooked for far too long. It’s not just about getting a seat at the table—it’s about building an entirely new table, one designed with space for all of us. Connect with Our Guest Shari Dunn Website& Book - Qualified: https://thesharidunn.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/today/author/sharidunn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesharidunn Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Holding It Together: Women As America's Safety Net with Jessica Calarco | 215 How To Defy Expectations with Dr. Sunita Sah | 271 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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A lot of men think their main issue is making their wife happy. But what if that's not the real problem?

In this episode, we dive into why constantly trying to please your wife might be holding you back. Instead of being the "nice guy," it's time to strip away the BS and step into who you truly are. I break down insights from No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover and explain how our Activation Method helps men reclaim their confidence—just like Michelangelo revealing David from the marble.

If you've been stuck in people-pleasing mode, this one's for you. Tune in and start becoming the man you were meant to be.

Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.

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Save Your Marriage In 60 Seconds

Are you trying to fix the wrong problem

Save Your Marriage In 60 Seconds

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A lot of men think their main issue is making their wife happy. But what if that's not the real problem?

If you've been stuck in people-pleasing mode, this one's for you. Tune in and start becoming the man you were meant to be.

Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.

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#Doug Holt

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Save Your Marriage In 60 Seconds

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What to Do If Your Wife Cheats on You 1:20

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What do you do if your wife cheats? Do you stay? Do you leave? And if you stay, how do you ever trust her again? If you’re choosing to move forward in the marriage, the key is rebuilding trust—and that starts with real forgiveness. Not just saying it, but actually doing the work to clear the air, set boundaries, and create a relationship where trust can grow again. In this episode, I break down how to navigate the tough conversations, use the Hidden Motives Technique and Clean Slate Method, and find small ways to rebuild connection—without ignoring what happened. If you’re facing this, you don’t have to figure it out alone. Let’s talk about what comes next. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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The Best Marriage Advice I’ve Ever Received 0:52

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What’s the best piece of marriage advice I’ve ever been given? After coaching men for over a decade, I’ve seen what works and what doesn’t in relationships. But if I had to pick just one game-changing piece of wisdom, it’s this: Don’t sweat the small stuff… and it’s all small stuff. In this episode, I share why this simple mindset shift can stop pointless fights, ease tension, and help you focus on what actually matters in your marriage. Because let’s be honest—most of the things we argue about? They’re not worth it. Let’s talk about how to let the little things go and build a stronger, more connected relationship. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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What to Do When Your Wife Puts You Down in Public 1:09

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Ever been embarrassed by your wife in front of friends or family? Maybe she takes a jab at you at a barbecue or a school event, and you’re left wondering how to handle it without making things worse. In this episode, I share a powerful response from our master coach, Mark Hainsworth, that flips the script in a way that’s calm, confident, and calls her forward with love. Instead of reacting with anger or shutting down, you’ll learn how to address the real issue beneath the criticism—without letting it slide. Because respect goes both ways. Let’s talk about how to handle this the right way. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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How to End Arguments with Your Wife (Without Giving In) 1:29

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Ever feel like you and your wife are having the same argument over and over? The key to breaking that cycle isn’t about proving you’re right—it’s about making sure she feels seen, heard, and understood first. That’s where the Hidden Motives Technique comes in. In this episode, I break down a simple formula that helps you handle disagreements in a way that actually strengthens your relationship. When you do this right, her defenses drop, and she becomes more open to your perspective—no more fighting just to fight. Want to learn how to turn conflict into connection? Let’s dive in. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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There’s No Easy Fix—But Here’s What Works 0:55

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Too many men look for a quick fix when their marriage feels like it’s falling apart. They jump from podcast to podcast, hoping for an easy way out. But here’s the truth—there isn’t one. Real change takes work. Just like in business, there’s no “get rich quick” scheme for your marriage. If you want to turn things around, you have to show up and put in the effort. That’s why we created The Activation Method—a proven process that works only if you’re willing to do the work. In this episode, we break down why most men stay stuck, what it really takes to rebuild your marriage, and how to stop searching for shortcuts that don’t exist. Listen now and start leading. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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Can You Save Your Marriage? Here’s the Truth 0:52

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“Is my marriage salvageable?” I hear this all the time from men who feel disconnected, distant, or even on the brink of divorce. And the truth is—it depends. If there’s still love between you and your wife, then yes, you can turn things around. I’ve seen it happen thousands of times, even when it seemed impossible. But saving your marriage isn’t about waiting for her to change—it starts with you. In this episode, we break down what it really takes to rebuild connection, reignite love, and shift the dynamic in your marriage. If you feel more like roommates than partners, this is your wake-up call. Listen in and take the first step. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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The One Thing Your Wife Needs to Hear in Tough Time 0:45

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Do you know the one thing your wife needs to hear when times get tough? Whether it’s financial stress, family struggles, or just a rough patch in your marriage, most men completely miss this. Your wife doesn’t need solutions—she needs certainty . She needs to hear you say, with confidence: “Babe, I love you, and we’re going to be okay.” In this episode, I break down why this simple phrase is so powerful and how stepping up as the leader in your home can bring more trust, connection, and intimacy. Tune in and learn how to show up for your wife when she needs you most. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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How to Get Your Wife to Pay Attention to You Again 0:59

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Does it feel like your wife is completely checked out of the relationship? You come home, and she’s glued to her phone, lost in Instagram, or just mentally somewhere else. It’s frustrating—but the solution is simple : be more interesting than whatever is stealing her attention. In this episode, I break down how to break out of boring routines, shake things up, and bring energy back into your marriage. If your relationship feels stuck on repeat, this is your wake-up call. Tune in and learn how to bring the spark back—starting today. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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Why Your Marriage Lacks Passion (And How to Fix It) 0:51

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Want to know why the spark fades in so many marriages? It all comes down to polarity . When you relinquish your leadership role in the home—whether with finances, parenting, or decision-making—you shift the balance of masculine and feminine energy. And when that polarity disappears, attraction fades. In this episode, I break down why it's your responsibility to lead and how stepping up as the Alpha (without being a dictator) can reignite passion and respect in your marriage. If you’ve ever felt like roommates instead of lovers, this episode is for you. Tune in now. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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The Worst Thing You Can Do When Your Wife Is Dominating 0:55

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What’s the absolute worst thing to do when your wife is being dominant? Hint: It’s not standing your ground. When you become overly submissive, you unintentionally force her into the alpha role—creating resentment and a relationship dynamic that’s bound to crumble. In this episode, I break down why most women want to be in their feminine energy and why stepping into your masculine presence is key to a thriving relationship. If you’ve ever felt stuck in this cycle, this episode is for you. Tune in and take back your role as the grounded, confident leader in your marriage. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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What Women Really Want 0:58

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Do you know what women really want? No, it’s not money, gifts, or a dream vacation—though those don’t hurt. What women secretly want goes much deeper. In this episode, I break down the four things women crave in a relationship: to be seen, heard, desired, and—most importantly—to feel emotionally safe. This last one was a game-changer for me, and once you get it, your relationship will never be the same. If you’ve ever wondered what your wife truly needs from you, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and level up your relationship today. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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Are you trying to fix the wrong problem 0:59

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A lot of men think their main issue is making their wife happy. But what if that's not the real problem? In this episode, we dive into why constantly trying to please your wife might be holding you back. Instead of being the "nice guy," it's time to strip away the BS and step into who you truly are. I break down insights from No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover and explain how our Activation Method helps men reclaim their confidence—just like Michelangelo revealing David from the marble. If you've been stuck in people-pleasing mode, this one's for you. Tune in and start becoming the man you were meant to be. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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Forget CFO — be your family’s Chief Fun Officer 1:14

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Do you know the three things all married men need to be doing? Most men get the first two right — protect and provide. But the third? That’s where a lot of guys fall short. In this episode, I break down the three core roles you need to master as a husband. We’ll talk about what it really means to protect your wife and kids (hint: it’s not just about physical safety), how to provide beyond just finances, and why you need to step into a surprising role most men overlook — the Chief Fun Officer. If you want to lead your marriage with strength and connection, this episode is a must-listen. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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Why Most Men Never See Divorce Coming 1:00

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“Things will eventually work out.” Sound familiar? A lot of men take this approach to their marriage — hoping that if they just hang in there, things will get better. But here’s the hard truth: the stats don’t back that up. In this episode, I’m sharing why surviving on "hopium" is a dangerous trap for men in marriage. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce, and a shocking 70% of those divorces are initiated by women. That number jumps to over 90% when the wife has a college degree or higher. If you're just hoping things will turn around without taking action, you’re ignoring the reality that your wife may already be planning her exit — either emotionally or legally. It’s time to wake up, get decisive, and take action before it’s too late. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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Are you letting your mom ruin your marriage? 0:57

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Are you letting your mom ruin your marriage without even realizing it? It might sound crazy — you’re a grown man — but I see this happen all the time. And I hear it from my wife, who coaches women, too. In this episode, I’m breaking down the three things you cannot let your mom do to your wife if you want a strong, healthy marriage. These are subtle but powerful ways that can create tension between your wife and your mom — and if you don’t step in, you’re setting yourself up for conflict. We’ll talk about why subtle disrespect from your mom is like death by 1,000 cuts, why your mom doesn't have the right to tell your wife how to parent your kids, and why it’s time to stop letting your mom mother you. If you want your wife to feel safe and respected, it’s time to step up and set boundaries. Learn how YOU can turn your marriage and life around here.…

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