Ep. 3 - Introducing Your Partner to the Kids

The Stepmom Unfiltered Podcast

While there is no one size fits all, join hosts Adrienne and Amelia as they delve into the delicate question: when is the right time to introduce a new partner to your children post-separation or divorce? Drawing from their own experiences, they candidly share insights on navigating this crucial step in their stepmom journeys. From considering the ages of the children to assessing the time since the split and the level of trauma involved, the hosts offer practical advice on making the introduction comfortable and fostering open communication. This enlightening conversation provides valuable perspectives for any parent facing the challenge of blending families, offering reassurance and guidance along the way.

HIGHLIGHTS:

• Consider individual circumstances like the children's ages, how long it's been since separation, and how difficult the separation was.

• Meet on neutral ground like a park for the initial introduction.

• Have an activity planned so the meetup is not awkward.

• Give children context about the new partner beforehand.

• Heal and move past the separation yourself before introducing a new partner.

• Co-parent effectively by introducing new partners to each other and the children.

• Be mindful of children's feelings and make the experience less awkward for them.

• There is no single right way, do what feels best for your unique family situation.

RESOURCES & LINKS:

Website: theartofblendedchaos.com

YouTube: @StepmomUnfiltered

FOLLOW:

The Art of Blended Chaos: @theartofblendedchaos

Amelia: @amelia.lane.stepparentcoach

Adrienne: @adrienne.stepmomcoach