034 Unlocking the Secrets of Conscious Lovemaking featuring Diana Richardson

The Calling: Follow your spirit- all the way in

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Hello beautiful people! Welcome to another episode of The Calling. I am thrilled to be here with you today. As always, our space is ignited with wonderful energy, and I am honoured to introduce our guest, Diana Richardson, a dear friend and a profound teacher in the realm of tantra and conscious lovemaking. Diana's journey is nothing short of inspiring, and I can't wait for you to hear her insights and experiences.

Summary

In this episode, we delve into the extraordinary journey of Diana Richardson, an acclaimed author and teacher of tantra. Diana shares her story, from growing up in apartheid South Africa to becoming a lawyer and eventually discovering her true passion for bodywork and tantra. She speaks about the importance of being present in the body, the power of self-massage, and how conscious lovemaking can transform our lives.

Diana emphasises the significance of awareness and presence in lovemaking, challenging conventional goal-oriented approaches. She discusses how being truly present in one's body can lead to deeper connections and more fulfilling experiences. Diana also highlights the natural differences between male and female sexual energy and the importance of giving women enough time to warm up during lovemaking.

Key Takeaways

1. Presence and Awareness: Diana stresses the importance of being present and aware in your body. This awareness can profoundly impact your overall well-being and your relationships.
2. Self-Massage and Body Connection: Self-massage can help you connect with your body, leading to a deeper understanding and appreciation of your physical self.
3. Conscious Lovemaking: Shifting from a goal-oriented approach to a more conscious, present method of lovemaking can transform your sexual experiences and relationships.
4. Differences in Sexual Energy: Recognising the differences in how men and women experience sexual energy can lead to more fulfilling and respectful intimate encounters.
5. Trust and Relaxation: Trusting your body and relaxing into the experience rather than forcing or controlling can lead to more authentic and satisfying connections.

Diana Richardson Resource Links:
Books / Author Profile: https://www.amazon.es/stores/author/B001KDM6NA/about
Website: https://www.loveforcouples.com/en/
TedX Talk: https://www.loveforcouples.com/en/audio.html
Living Love Audio Series (Offering): https://www.loveforcouples.com/en/audio.html#interview

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• Soul Contract Activation Meditations: https://homaya-amar.mykajabi.com/podcast-the-calling

Chương

1. Introduction - Welcome to 'The Calling'! (00:00:00)

2. Diana's Journey - Diana shares her journey into exploring love and intimacy. (00:02:05)

3. Discovering Awareness - Understanding the importance of presence and awareness in lovemaking. (00:06:48)

4. Challenging Conventions - Diana challenges conventional views on sex and orgasm. (00:11:18)

5. Teaching and Writing - How Diana's experiences led her to teach and write about mindful lovemaking. (00:18:09)

6. Retreats and Workshops - Exploring the impact of Diana's retreats and workshops on couples. (00:20:01)

7. The Role of Gender - Exploring the dynamics of gender roles in lovemaking. (00:28:53)

8. Difference Between Orgasm and Orgasmic - Understanding the distinction between orgasm and orgasmic experiences. (00:32:18)

9. Cultural Standards and Education - Addressing cultural standards and the lack of education around lovemaking. (00:34:50)

10. Conclusion - Wrapping up with reflections on the transformative power of mindful lovemaking. (00:37:28)