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200. It's publish day! Surprising things I've never shared about the book process
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My first book, Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love, is out in the world right now. I'm SO EXCITED! My business manager Jayla Rae joins me to reveal the little-known, lesser-discussed pieces of my book-writing journey. She’s leading me through questions about what I learned while writing the book, what I am most looking forward to, and thought-provoking questions about the book from Date Brazen clients! Join us on this behind-the-scenes book journey!
We get into:
- Getting real and raw while writing the book and the juicy stories within
- The feels and the fun of sharing my book with friends and family for the first time.
- Answering burning questions from the Date Brazen community about the book, future plans, and beyond!
Links: You can pick up your copy of Thank You, More Please where all books are sold right now and sign up for our book club at datebrazen.com/book!
Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/book-pub-day-qa
254 tập
Manage episode 422963575 series 3373823
My first book, Thank You, More Please: A Feminist Guide to Breaking Dumb Dating Rules and Finding Love, is out in the world right now. I'm SO EXCITED! My business manager Jayla Rae joins me to reveal the little-known, lesser-discussed pieces of my book-writing journey. She’s leading me through questions about what I learned while writing the book, what I am most looking forward to, and thought-provoking questions about the book from Date Brazen clients! Join us on this behind-the-scenes book journey!
We get into:
- Getting real and raw while writing the book and the juicy stories within
- The feels and the fun of sharing my book with friends and family for the first time.
- Answering burning questions from the Date Brazen community about the book, future plans, and beyond!
Links: You can pick up your copy of Thank You, More Please where all books are sold right now and sign up for our book club at datebrazen.com/book!
Show notes: http://datebrazen.com/blog/book-pub-day-qa
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