#06 Why You Attract The Men You DON'T Want & Lose The Ones You DO

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Summary
In this episode of The Tinder Project, hosts Mark Rosenfeld and Teal Elisabeth explore the dynamics of online dating, focusing on the importance of first date locations, celebrating positive male behaviors termed 'cyber chivalry', and addressing the common struggle of attracting the right partners - especially when you get an onslaught of people you're NOT attracted to but seemingly fail to attract the ones you DO feel attraction for. They emphasize the significance of being authentic, open, and embodying the traits one wishes to attract in a partner, while also providing practical advice for navigating dating scenarios.
Takeaways
The importance of celebrating positive male behaviors in online dating.
First date locations should be fun and engaging to ease pressure.
Being active and moving during dates can enhance connection.
Acknowledging a man's effort in asking you out is crucial.
Women should embody the traits they wish to attract in men.
Emotional safety is key in relationships and dating.
Non-attachment to outcomes can lead to better dating experiences.
Being authentic and open is essential in attracting the right partner.
Feedback in dating helps both parties understand each other better.
It's important to enjoy the dating process without overthinking.
Chapters
0:00 Introduction
1:56 Celebrating Cyber Chivalry
8:13 Exploring First Date Locations
13:26 How To 'Steer' A Man AWAY From BAD First Date Locations
17:00 Why I'm Only Attracting Men I'm NOT Interested In

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Chương

1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Celebrating Cyber Chivalry (00:01:56)

3. Exploring First Date Locations (00:08:13)

4. How To 'Steer' A Man AWAY From BAD First Date Locations (00:13:26)

5. Why I'm Only Attracting Men I'm NOT Interested In (00:17:00)