H.E.R PODCAST | Enneagram 3

Vanessa Gracia Cruz

Episode: 013 "Enneagram 3"
Today we cover the Enneagram type 3: The Achievers. Enneagram 3’s are in the emotions triad, which means we were children who felt as though not all of our emotional needs were met. This doesn’t mean necessarily that our parents were bad, but very often were busy and hardworking, and left us wanting more attention. Through the lens of childhood innocence, we began to seek that attention through achievements, accolades, and lord of activity.
Enneagram 3s are all about getting things done, doing them well, and doing them as quickly as possible. We learned at a young age that gold stars feel good - so we really chase those gold stars. On the downside, we can sometimes over-value the approval and admiration of others. Growth for type 3s is all about realizing you are who you ARE, not what you do, and your value is not only found in achieving! Along side Amaury Gutierrez & Bianca Sabbat, I expose myself in the Enneagram 3, my very own number.