Ep# 174: All or Nothing

Coffee With Dr. Kashey

In this extensive and thought-provoking episode, Dr. Kashey dives deeper into chronic frustrations - ongoing obstacles that spill across major life domains. He begins by reiterating the fundamental concepts of frustration, distinguishing between discrete and chronic frustrations, and highlighting their impact on the four domains of operational, emotional, achievement, and fairness. Using the common example of long term overfatness, he outlines how constant physical and emotional disruption propagates failures in achievement and perceived unfairness. Dr. Kashey explains how exacerbating factors like rigid "all-or-nothing" thinking and unrealistic expectations put people in a "cognitive grinder" of self-perpetuating failure. He colorfully depicts the mindset driving this unhealthy cycle, where distorted beliefs strengthen in the face of violating reality. For severe chronic frustration, quick fixes fall short; the very approach to life requires adjustment. With a compassionate understanding of these struggles, Dr. Kashey equips listeners to recognize and address the deeper roots of major life obstacles.