Family Court Q&A: Parental Alienation, Abuse Claims, and When to Stop Fighting

It’s All Your Fault: High Conflict People

Tackling Listener Questions on High Conflict Personalities in Family Law

In this episode of It's All Your Fault, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter address questions from two listeners about high conflict personalities in family law. They dive into the complexities of parental alienation, domestic violence allegations, and when to stop fighting in court.

Listener Question 1: Understanding Parental Alienation and Estrangement

The first listener asks about the confusion surrounding parental alienation. Bill defines key terms: "refuse and resist," parental alienation, and realistic estrangement. He explains the differences between alienation caused by one parent's behavior and estrangement resulting from a parent's own actions, such as domestic violence or child abuse.

Listener Question 2: When to Stop Fighting in Court

The second listener, from Australia, asks when to give up the fight with a high conflict ex-partner who continues to violate court orders. Bill and Megan address the issue of "legal abuse" and the limitations of the court system in handling these situations effectively.

Questions We Answer in This Episode:

• What is the difference between parental alienation and realistic estrangement?
• How common are false allegations of abuse in family court?
• When should you stop fighting in court with a high conflict ex-partner?

Key Takeaways:

• Consider all possibilities in each case without presumptions.
• Parental alienation and domestic violence both exist and require careful assessment.
• Fighting in court for more than two years may be counterproductive.
• Obtain transcripts of court hearings to address false statements or bad decisions.

This episode provides valuable insights for anyone navigating high conflict personalities in family law. Bill and Megan offer a balanced perspective, emphasizing the need for an open mind and case-by-case analysis.

Links & Other Notes

• BOOKS
  • Don’t Alienate the Kids: Raising Resilient Children While Avoiding High-Conflict Divorce
  • The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide
• COURSES
  • New Ways for Families Course + Coaching for Co-Parents
  • Conflict Influencer Class
• OUR WEBSITE: https://www.highconflictinstitute.com/
• Submit a Question for Bill and Megan
• All of our books can be found in our online store or anywhere books are sold, including as e-books.
• You can also find these show notes at our site as well.

Note: We are not diagnosing anyone in our discussions, merely discussing general patterns of behavior. Nor are we providing legal of therapeutic advice. Please seek the assistance of your local professionals to seek help.

• (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
• (00:36) - Listener Questions
• (01:18) - Question 1: Parental Alienation
• (22:54) - Question 2: When to Give In
• (31:36) - Reminders & Coming Next Week: More Listener Questions

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