5: The Epidemic of Sexual Abuse in Marriage

Liberating Motherhood

Sexual coercion in marriage is widespread and normalized. In roughly half of marriages, this coercion escalates to abuse.
Men dismiss women as less sexual, and insist that women should therefore cater to men’s needs. The data suggest otherwise. Women avoid sex with men because men do not offer them sex that is worth having—and because they create abusive environments that destroy sexual desire.
Men who actually want to have sex should listen to women’s concerns. Instead, they become sexually coercive—apparently more interested in complaining about sex than actually having it.
In this podcast, Jeff and I talk about the normalization of violence and abuse in marriage, and why a more feminist approach could help everyone enjoy a healthier sex life.
You can read the data from my sex survey here. I’ll also be doing an update survey in about a month!
We'll be covering other forms of sexual abuse and dysfunction in subsequent episodes, and welcome your feedback on what you'd like to hear us discuss next.
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