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"Are 'rapport dates,' where I can't pull, sometimes worth it?"
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Scenario 1: Girl who's your type agrees to a 5pm date via text. She says however that she has to meet a friend at 6:30, and she can't adjust the time. Should you meet up with her or re-arrange for a different time? Scenario 2: You're approaching on the street / in a station and come across a girl who's your type. She's receptive. You go for the instadate. She agrees. But then she tells you she has to meet a friend in an hour. Do you go on the date anyway in order to build rapport and increase the chance of a second date, or do you just take her contact and keep approaching? -- In this short clip I talk about whether "rapport dates" are worth it. That is, is it worth it to go on a date with a girl even if you don't have the logistics (i.e., not enough time or too much distance) to get her back. Will this increase the chance of a subsequent date and hook up? My answer isn't what most guys might expect. I also address in this clip "stacking" dates. And if I do stack, do I prioritize a girl I haven't slept with yet versus a plate, etc.
Full article: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/02/11/rapport-dates
289 tập
Manage episode 287065695 series 2439125
Main blog - https://mikemehlman.net/
Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/mikemehlman
Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/mike_mehlman/
Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/mikemehlman.net
Scenario 1: Girl who's your type agrees to a 5pm date via text. She says however that she has to meet a friend at 6:30, and she can't adjust the time. Should you meet up with her or re-arrange for a different time? Scenario 2: You're approaching on the street / in a station and come across a girl who's your type. She's receptive. You go for the instadate. She agrees. But then she tells you she has to meet a friend in an hour. Do you go on the date anyway in order to build rapport and increase the chance of a second date, or do you just take her contact and keep approaching? -- In this short clip I talk about whether "rapport dates" are worth it. That is, is it worth it to go on a date with a girl even if you don't have the logistics (i.e., not enough time or too much distance) to get her back. Will this increase the chance of a subsequent date and hook up? My answer isn't what most guys might expect. I also address in this clip "stacking" dates. And if I do stack, do I prioritize a girl I haven't slept with yet versus a plate, etc.
Full article: https://mikemehlman.net/2021/02/11/rapport-dates
289 tập
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