65. Are We Boxing or Raising a Child? - Parenting as a Team With Tanya Hale

Parenting Post-Wilderness: Parenting a Struggling Teen Before, During and After Treatment

Are you parenting your kid as a team or does it feel more like you’re in the boxing ring with the other parent, trying to prove that you’re right and they’re wrong?

When emotions run high, it’s sometimes hard to acknowledge that you’re on the same team as the other parent. Instead of sitting down and listening to each other, we automatically shift towards an ‘I’m right and you’re wrong’ mindset.

What if I tell you that it can be different?

My dear friend and incredible mid-life relationship coach Tanya Hale joined me today for this value-packed interview on how we can parent as a team. She’s here to help us communicate better with our spouses (or the other parent if we’re divorced) and our adult children. Oof, doesn’t that sound incredible?!

In this episode on parenting as a team, we discuss:

• Working through our differences as parents;
• How to start working together with the other parent;
• How to get to curiosity with our brains who just want to be right;
• What to do when your spouse is not doing the work;
• And much more!

If you’d like to connect, you can find me on Instagram (@bethhillmancoaching) or go to my website www.bethhillmancoaching.com. And if you’re interested in working with me, you can learn more about my private coaching here or my group coaching here.

And remember parents, the change begins with us.

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More about Tanya Hale

Tanya Hale is a life coach who focuses on helping women in mid-life work through their tough relationships. She works with clients in all stages of divorce, those who don’t want to get divorced but are struggling to be happy in their marriage, and parents who are struggling with their adult children.

You can learn more about Tanya’s work on her website and her podcast ‘Intentional living with Tanya Hale’!

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