First-time Sexperiences, Abandonment Wounds and Low Standards - Sand in My Clam Instalment with Lexy from Alive To Enjoy

The Labia Lounge

In this Sandy Clam eppy of The Labia Lounge with Lexy from Alive To Enjoy we delved into some things that get sand in our clams. Lexy shares vulnerably about her first time sexual experiences, how she felt pressured to just "get it out of the way" so she wasn't a "virgin" anymore, and how a lack of safety and self worth influenced her sex life to the point where her vag started literally clamping shut!

We chat about all sorts of important concepts that, if you grew up with a yoni, you'll probably find relatable and equally infuriating.

Topics covered in this episode:

- The attraction to "bad boys" and the value of safety

- The importance of safety for pleasure, vulnerability, intimacy, and deeper connections

- Lack of safety leading to issues like vaginismus and painful sex

- Growing up with a single dad and lack of femininity in their life

- Shame, confusion, and pressure around sexuality, body, and period

- Importance of setting boundaries and standards in relationships

- Holding men to higher standards and expressing needs and desires

- Men lacking self-development communities and the importance of teaching and learning from each other

- Challenges of pursuing an extraordinary love and loneliness

- Saying no to those who don't align and not settling in relationships

Plus you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!

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