123. The Upside of OCD: How Emotional Sensitivity and Imagination Become Superpowers

The OCD Whisperer Podcast with Kristina Orlova

When we think about Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD), our minds often go straight to the difficulties it brings—the obsessive thoughts and compulsive actions that can disrupt daily life. But what if there’s a side of OCD that’s rarely discussed, one that offers unique strengths?

In this episode of The OCD Whisperer Podcast, Dr. Michael Alcée, a clinical psychologist and mental health educator at the Manhattan School of Music, helps us rethink our view of OCD. Through insights from his forthcoming book, The Upside of OCD, Dr. Alcée shares how the intense emotional sensitivity and vivid imagination often seen in individuals with OCD can be seen as valuable assets rather than limitations.

Together, Dr. Alcée and Kristina dive deep into the heart of OCD, exploring how understanding the emotional roots behind its symptoms can foster greater self-awareness and more compassionate self-care. Dr. Alcée discusses how setting healthy boundaries and embracing one’s unique traits can lead to a more balanced, fulfilling life, shifting the focus from “disorder” to the richness of experience that OCD may offer.

Tune in to gain a compassionate new outlook on OCD, and if this resonates, don’t forget to subscribe and share with others who might need a fresh perspective!

In This Episode

• [01:12] Introduction to Dr. Michael Alcée
• [02:06] The upside of OCD
• [02:58] Emotional sensitivity and imagination in OCD
• [03:19] Understanding OCD symptoms
• [04:18] The role of feelings in OCD
• [05:11] Nuanced emotional awareness
• [06:16] Imagination and the OCD mind
• [07:21] Case study: Navigating driving fear
• [08:28] Contextualizing different aspects of OCD
• [09:34] The richness of the OCD mind
• [10:38] Exploring ERP and exposure exercises
• [11:32] Differences in managing OCD feelings
• [12:04] Balancing loss and love in OCD
• [13:30] The nature of compulsions
• [15:12] Coping with emotional overextension
• [16:04] Understanding underlying stress causes
• [17:08] Recognizing the importance of conflict awareness
• [18:10] OCD’s distraction mechanism
• [19:02] Nurturing boundaries for emotional health
• [20:17] Reclaiming healthy agency and empowerment
• [24:19] Mindfulness and self-reflection
• [25:16] Self-awareness for personal growth
• [27:06] The poet's soul

Notable Quotes

• [02:06] “We don't focus enough on the person who has OCD; we focus a lot on the disorder. The upside is this wonderful kind of spark of emotional sensitivity and imaginative range.” - Dr. Michael Alcée
• [04:18] “Most people with OCD feel so much, but they don't have someone to help them mirror it back. By the time they catch up with it, it's already converted itself into all these terrible obsessions and compulsions.” - Dr. Michael Alcée
• [12:38] “People with OCD have a precocious existential sensitivity. They notice death way earlier, and it's almost like they never had the language to understand it. I want to highlight and celebrate that rich capacity to live.” - Dr. Michael Alcée
• [17:59] “When I realized I wasn't listening to my feelings, the obsession melted away.” - Dr. Michael Alcée
• [22:17] “People with OCD have an extremely enormous heart, but they don't always trust it and give it away too easily.” - Dr. Michael Alcée
• [27:06] “I want people with OCD to realize that they have poet souls.” - Dr. Michael Alcée

Our Guest

Dr. Michael Alcée is a clinical psychologist and mental health educator at the Manhattan School of Music in New York. Known for his innovative approach, he blends psychology with artistry, encouraging clients to see mental health as a creative process. His book Therapeutic Improvisation explores how therapists interact with clients like jazz musicians, and his upcoming work, The Upside of OCD, redefines OCD as a unique sensitivity. Dr. Alcée's insights have been featured in outlets like Psychology Today, NPR, and the New York Times, enriching our emotional and existential awareness understanding.

Resources & Links

Kristina Orlova, LMFT

• https://www.instagram.com/ocdwhisperer/
• https://www.youtube.com/c/OCDWhispererChannel
• https://www.korresults.com/
• https://www.onlineocdacademy.com

Dr. Michael Alcee

• https://michaelalcee.com/
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/michael-alcee-14417755/
• https://www.instagram.com/mike_drop_/
• https://www.facebook.com/livelifecreatively2/

Mentioned

• Therapeutic Improvisation: How to Stop Winging It and Own It as a Therapist
• The Upside of OCD: Flip the Script to Reclaim Your Life

Disclaimer

Please note while our host is a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in OCD and anxiety disorders in the state of California, this podcast is for educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for therapy.

Stay tuned for biweekly episodes filled with valuable insights and tips for managing OCD and anxiety. And remember, keep going in the meantime. See you in the next episode!