TSG 54: S0303 - How To Gain Clarity & Recognize Opportunities

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In the last year, opportunity has shown up in a bunch of different spaces in my life. From relationships, friendships, travel, technology, and especially business ventures, it feels like opportunities are everywhere and I'd have to actively work to avoid them. It's a good feeling. But it's not like I didn't do some adjusting to get here. This is a combination of focus and preparation.

Speaking with a friend of mine, I heard the tell tale sign of someone blind to opportunities:

"I wish I was as lucky as you are. You're surrounded by opportunities, and I don't have anything coming my way."

This opened the door to what it really means to recognize opportunities everywhere. It feels like a lot of people only recognize the best of the best when they land on their laps unannounced. Everything beyond that is either discounted for not being a good option –not worth pursuing– or it's just plain missed.

There are three factors that influence the opportunities around you:

1. Your perspective (the lens through which you view the world)
2. Your clarity of focus (are you clear on exactly what you want)
3. Your environment (you might have to leave that one horse town to find more horses)

On this episode, I'm going to give you a few reasons why you might be the only thing holding yourself back (as cliché as that sounds), what steps you can take to gain clarity and recognize opportunities around you, and why your perspective on luck has everything to do with both. This is more than just opening up your eyes – it's about the damn story in your head. Take a listen and let me know what you think in the comments below. [Subscribe Here]