The Simple Shift: Transitioning to a Life of True Significance | Ep. 024

Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with Vivian Cumins

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cách đây khoảng một năm trước 30:55

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Have you ever felt like your life lacks significance, despite what you read in Scripture? Is it difficult for you to believe that your life is meaningful in God’s eyes? In today’s episode, Vivian Cumins is joined by Rachael Adams, a business owner and author who felt for many years that her life was only valuable when she was accomplishing the things on her to-do list. This even worked itself into her relationship with God, as Rachael began believing that her worth was wrapped up in achievement, and God was most proud of her when she was most successful.

After seeking Scripture, Rachael realized that this internalized belief was a tool that the enemy was using to deter her from God’s true plans for her life. Vivian and Rachael discuss the reality that so many Christian women feel the same way, and believe that their lives and efforts don’t truly matter unless they are successful in one way or another. For many women, this fear or self-doubt prevents them from using the gifts that God has granted them, so Rachael encourages listeners to cherish small beginnings and seek guidance from the Lord.

God’s love is not contingent on achievement, but He has great plans for His children, and for many, the fear of failure prevents us from beginning anything. Instead of focusing your energy on what you can do, focus on what God is going to do. Ultimately, the things we accomplish are not for personal glory, but should be for the glory of God and the advancement of His Kingdom, and any labor done in and for the Lord is not in vain.

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Rachael Adams is a speaker, host of The Love Offering Podcast, and author of A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life. Rachael grew up in an entrepreneurial family and was a stay-at-home mom who struggled for many years with feeling like her life wasn’t significant. After seeking Scripture to help her overcome her internalized need for success and productivity, Rachael discovered her passion for helping women recognize their God-given purpose and significance.

Website: https://rachaelkadams.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachaeladamsauthor/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachaeladamsauthor/

Podcast: The Love Offering Podcast

Book: A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life by Rachael Adams

POWERFUL QUOTE:

“Our whole lives are God’s training ground, and He’s preparing us with every single conversation and experience.” - Rachael Adams

CONNECT WITH VIVIAN

Website: https://viviancumins.com

Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2

Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance

Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins

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#Religion #Vivian Cumins #Balance #Business #Women #Balanced Life #Harmony #Priority #God #Spiritual Beings #Abundant Life #Self Care #Fun #Juggling #Intentional

The Simple Shift: Transitioning to a Life of True Significance | Ep. 024

Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast with Vivian Cumins

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MP3•Trang chủ episode

GUEST BIO:

Website: https://rachaelkadams.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachaeladamsauthor/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachaeladamsauthor/

Podcast: The Love Offering Podcast

Book: A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life by Rachael Adams

POWERFUL QUOTE:

“Our whole lives are God’s training ground, and He’s preparing us with every single conversation and experience.” - Rachael Adams

CONNECT WITH VIVIAN

Website: https://viviancumins.com

Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2

Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance

Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance

TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins

MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com

45 tập

#Religion #Vivian Cumins #Balance #Business #Women #Balanced Life #Harmony #Priority #God #Spiritual Beings #Abundant Life #Self Care #Fun #Juggling #Intentional

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cách đây 5 ngày trước44:41

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cách đây 24 ngày trước51:04

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What does it take to choose joy over overwhelm when life feels impossibly full? Author and speaker Tricia Goyer opens up about managing a household of ten kids, caring for her 95-year-old grandmother, writing over 90 books, and still finding time for self-care. Despite the busyness of her daily life, Tricia shares how letting go of control and trusting God's timing helped her lose 90 pounds and rediscover her vibrant personality. Through candid stories of her weight loss journey and practical tips for time management, Vivian and Tricia explore how surrendering our expectations to God can transform overwhelming days into opportunities for growth, connection, and genuine balance. GUEST BIO Tricia Goyer is a multi-bestselling USA Today author with an impressive portfolio of over 90 books and 500 articles spanning fiction and nonfiction genres, with a focus on family and parenting. She is the recipient of two Carol Awards, a Retailer’s Best Award, an ECPA Silver Medallion, and a Christy Award nomination. As a homeschooling mother of ten—seven of whom were adopted—she is also a devoted wife to John and grandmother. She also serves as a loving caregiver for her precious 95-year-old grandmother. In addition to her literary achievements, Tricia is a sought-after conference speaker, having graced platforms such as MomCon, Raising Generations, and Teach Them Diligently conferences. She’s been a guest on numerous national TV and radio programs. Her speaking engagements across the United States and internationally cover diverse topics including faith, writing, motherhood, and personal transformation. Tricia hosts the Tricia Goyer Show on iTunes and other podcasting apps. She also co-hosts The Daily Bible Podcast with Michelle Hill. Through her various mediums, Tricia’s inspiring messages reach a broad audience. Tricia’s journey includes overcoming significant challenges, including experiencing an abortion at 15 and becoming a teen mother at 17. Through vulnerability and faith, she shares her testimony of healing and redemption, inspiring audiences by demonstrating how personal stories can create meaningful life change. With remarkable determination and grit – and amidst an extremely busy life, Tricia transformed her health by incorporating healthy eating and habits, which has led to increased energy and confidence. No longer does she feel exhausted and overwhelmed, which is why she also became a Health Coach, helping and encouraging others that with support and determination, change is not just possible, it is achievable. Website: https://triciagoyer.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/triciagoyer Facebook: https://facebook.com/tricia.goyer For Health Coaching - Email: triciagoyer@gmail.com POWERFUL QUOTE “Overwhelm is only there because we have expectations of all the things we want to get done. Overwhelm is a choice.” - Tricia Goyer CONNECT WITH VIVIAN Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple and Spotify: https://lnk.to/JugglingLife TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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cách đây 5 weeks trước33:33

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Room to Think: Clear the Clutter and Reduce Stress | Ep. 41 38:21

cách đây 7 weeks trước38:21

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Unmasked: Breaking Free from the Cycle of People-Pleasing | Ep. 040 37:55

cách đây 9 weeks trước37:55

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Are you caught in the exhausting cycle of trying to please everyone at the expense of your own well-being? Life coach Kerri Goodman shares powerful insights about breaking free from people-pleasing patterns, particularly for women with ADHD who often struggle with rejection sensitivity. Through personal stories and biblical wisdom, Vivian and Kerri explore how perfectionism, fear of rejection, and childhood messages can fuel people-pleasing behaviors. Together they unpack the difference between genuine kindness and unhealthy accommodation while offering practical strategies for setting boundaries without guilt. Discover how embracing God's unconditional acceptance can help you move from constant people-pleasing to living authentically, even if that means not everyone likes you. GUEST BIO Kerri Goodman is an ICF-certified life coach, ADHD coach, and communication consultant with over a decade of experience helping busy professionals, entrepreneurs, and moms thrive by embracing their brilliant minds. A wife, mother of four, grandmother of three, and an ADHDer herself, Kerri brings a personal and knowledgeable understanding of the unique challenges and strengths of an ADHD brain – especially for women managing multiple roles. Her coaching approach, grounded in her background in education, social work, and faith in Christ, empowers clients to break free from perfectionism and people-pleasing, reconnecting them to their strengths, values, and purpose. With Kerri’s support, clients discover ADHD-friendly strategies to create focus, calm the chaos, reach their goals, and create a fulfilling life that reflects who they truly are and makes an impact. https://kerrigoodman.com https://facebook.com/kerrigoodmancoaching https://instagram.com/brilliantly_adhd POWERFUL QUOTE "People pleasing isn’t just saying yes to things or being accommodating, but it also is kind of putting on a mask. Like, I want to be the person that I think you want me to be.” - Kerri Goodman CONNECT WITH VIVIAN Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://lnk.to/JugglingLife TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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Loving Limits: Establishing Healthy Boundaries in Relationships | Ep. 039 28:54

cách đây 11 weeks trước28:54

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Let Go! Surrender Control and Watch your Relationships Grow | Ep. 38 29:55

cách đây 13 weeks trước29:55

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How do you find freedom when you're trapped in a self-made prison of control? Author Rachel Jobe shares her journey from perfectionism to peace through surrendering control to God. Vivian and Rachel discuss the difference between doing and being, drawing wisdom from Jesus's teaching about the vine and branches. Reflecting on their parallel experiences with illness and burnout, they reveal how God lovingly strips away our need to manage everything, replacing anxiety with trust, which ultimately brings us closer to God and strengthens our relationship with Him and others. Rachel, who serves in Asia Pacific with her family, offers practical insights from her book "Let Go" about embracing God's gentle leadership over our drive to control outcomes. GUEST BIO Rachel Jobe is the author of the award-winning book Let Go!. As a recovering perfectionist, she is passionate about helping Christian ladies move from a place of frustration and irritability to a life of radiant joy and peace. She is joining us today from Southeast Asia, where she lives and serves with her husband and three sons doing church development work. POWERFUL QUOTE "God is so eager to work on behalf of His children, to move in us, to move in our hearts, and to move through us if we would just get out of the way and let go of our desire to control things." Rachel’s Social Media: Website: https://jimandrachel.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555882667924 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joberachel/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejobefam/ CONNECT WITH VIVIAN Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple and Spotify: https://lnk.to/JugglingLife TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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Daughters of Wisdom: A Christmas Story of Faith, Wonder, and Worship | Ep. 37 12:04

cách đây 15 weeks trước12:04

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What can three extraordinary women from the Christmas story teach us about living wisely? Beyond the familiar nativity scene with shepherds and wise men lies a powerful message through the lives of Elizabeth, Mary, and Anna. Vivian shares how these remarkable women demonstrated wisdom through their persistence, humility, and unwavering faith in God's plan. Through Elizabeth's bold obedience despite years of barrenness, Mary's quiet pondering of miraculous events, and Anna's lifelong dedication to worship, we discover that true wisdom isn't about having all the answers – it's about maintaining an open heart to God's guidance. Whether you're feeling uncertain about God's timing or struggling to trust His plan, these ancient stories offer a fresh perspective on finding wisdom for today's challenges. ABOUT VIVIAN Vivian Cumins is a writer, speaker, and host of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast. She is also an Oklahoma native, a career professional, a military spouse, a step-mom to two adult kids, and a “Glammy” to five grandkids. Although her name means “LIVELY” Vivian admits she has not always felt lively. Her need to be perfect and in control led to an unbalanced lifestyle filled with work, self-inflicted stress and illness, depression, and anxiety. In 2020, after years of striving and mental exhaustion, Vivian rededicated her life to the Lord and vowed to relinquish control and submit to God’s will. Her newfound faith and commitment were immediately put to the test when she had to trust God to provide healing from stage 3 melanoma. Though this was a difficult time, Vivian claims she would not change a thing. That ‘wilderness’ season, she says, delivered her from a prideful spirit and set her free from captivity. It was also during this time that God began speaking to her in dreams. His voice and the challenges she faced taught her how to give up control and trust God, embrace imperfection, and recognize, then recalibrate, the unbalance in her life. Today, Vivian not only shares her testimony of preparation and deliverance, but she also provides valuable lessons and helpful tips for actively seeking balance, which starts with making time for God, taking care of yourself, and sprinkling in some good old-fashioned fun. POWERFUL QUOTE "To be a wise woman, the path is simple. Ask God for wisdom, believe in His plan, and obey His guidance.” - Vivian Cumins SCRIPTURE READINGS REFERENCED IN THIS EPISODE Story of Elizabeth: Gospel of Luke, Chapter 1 Story of Mary: Gospel of Luke, Chapters 1 & 2 Story of Anna: Gospel of Luke, Chapter 2 James 1:5 – If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. (NIV) Proverbs 8:35 – For those who find me [Wisdom] find life and receive favor from the Lord. (NIV) James 4:6 – But He gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says: ‘God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.” (NIV) CONNECT WITH VIVIAN Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple and Spotify: https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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Silent Goodbyes: Understanding and Overcoming Friendship Loss | Ep. 36 36:30

cách đây 16 weeks trước36:30

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Have you ever experienced the heartbreak of a friendship falling apart? Author Elizabeth Laing Thompson sits down with Vivian for a raw, heartfelt conversation about navigating broken friendships and finding healing through faith. Vivian shares her own story of losing friends after rededicating her life to Christ, as Elizabeth opens up about friendships that blindsided her and the challenging journey to forgiveness. Walking through the complex emotions of friend breakups, they unpack the process of letting go and discovering hope when relationships drift apart. From processing hurt feelings to finding freedom in forgiveness, this conversation provides a message of hope and healing. GUEST BIO Elizabeth Laing Thompson is a speaker, novelist, and the author of many inspirational books for women and teens, including When a Friendship Falls Apart – Finding God’s Path for Healing, Forgiveness, and (Maybe) Help Letting Go, All the Feels, All the Feels for Teens, and the When God Says series. She writes to help others find hope when they're waiting, help when they're hurting, and humor in holiness. Her work has appeared in numerous outlets including Proverbs 31, Power for Living, Focus on the Family Magazine, and Brio Magazine. After a long struggle with infertility, Elizabeth and her husband, Kevin, became the always exhausted but grateful parents of four children, three of whom are now teenagers. When she's not inhaling Starbucks mochas and plotting her next book, Elizabeth works from home as an editor and church volunteer (that's code for "pastor's wife"), and as a snack maker, couch snuggler, laundry slayer, floor mopper, not-so-gourmet chef, and interpreter-slash-counselor of teenage feelings. She prays the lessons she is learning, trying to wrestle Christ into the chaos of daily life, giving others hope, practical help, and a lot of good laughs. Website: https://lizzylife.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/alizzylife Instagram: https://instagram.com/elizabethlaingthompson Books: https://lizzylife.com/books POWERFUL QUOTE FROM ELIZABETH "Friendship is still out there to be had. You are worth loving and there are amazing women out there who, given the opportunity, would love to love you in return.” - Elizabeth Laing Thompson CONNECT WITH VIVIAN Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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Marriage Myths: What's Really Holding You Back? | Ep. 034 43:30

cách đây 17 weeks trước43:30

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Have you ever wondered if your marriage would magically improve if your husband would just change? Author Rhonda Stoppe joins Vivian for a candid chat about the myths wives believe and shares powerful insights from her book. As Vivian opens up about her own journey learning to accept compliments from her husband, Rhonda shares biblical wisdom about respect, intimacy, and the power of positive communication. Together, they tackle everything from the story of King David's dancing to practical tips for rekindling romance when you're exhausted from a long day. Through personal stories and scriptural truth, Vivian and Rhonda explore how letting go of resentment and embracing God's design for marriage can transform your relationship. Whether you're struggling with unmet expectations or seeking deeper connection, this episode offers hope and practical steps for building the marriage you've always longed for. GUEST BIO “I could have listened to Rhonda talk all night,” is what audiences say about Rhonda Stoppe’s honest, engaging presentations. Rhonda is the best-selling author of 7 books, host of the Old Ladies Know Stuff Podcast , and a sought-after speaker who appears nationally and internationally on TV and radio. Rhonda’s Moms Raising Sons radio appearance was awarded a “Best of Episode.” Rhonda has experienced the challenges of balancing marriage, parenting, and career and she’s ready to share her insights with you! The Stoppe’s have been happily married for 43 years. They have 4 adult children and 15 grandchildren. Website: https://NoRegretsWoman.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/NoRegretsWoman Instagram: https://instagram.com/rhondastoppe YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UC7xAH1MW7EkugW2-544QyYA?view_as=subscriber Old Ladies Know Stuff Podcast: https://pod.link/1648817407 For more about Rhonda and to receive a gift please visit: NoRegretsWoman.com TEXT the words: NOREGRETS to 55444 to receive a Free Video: Saying Yes to What is Best - Time Management with Rhonda Stoppe. Free Chapter: Sign up for my Newsletter to receive a FREE Chapter from my best-selling book: Moms Raising Sons to Be Men. Chapter 16: Even if You're Scared - Facing the Culture War with Wisdom & Strength. https://rhondastoppe.com/bonus-signup Additional Resources: A Christian Woman's Guide to Great Sex in Marriage ( ebook ). Free Marriage Video Course with Steve & Rhonda Stoppe POWERFUL QUOTE FROM RHONDA "You can build a marriage without regrets. Let it begin with you.” - Rhonda Stoppe CONNECT WITH VIVIAN Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple and Spotify: https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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Anchored to Hope, Tethered by Addiction: The Story of a Praying Mom | Ep. 035 39:59

cách đây 17 weeks trước39:59

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What happens when your child's choices threaten to destroy not only their life but yours as well? Author Dawn Ward shares her raw, personal journey of watching multiple family members battle addiction, including her own sons. As Vivian and Dawn dig into the realities of parenting an addicted child, they explore the crushing weight of blame, the dangerous pull of codependency, and why setting boundaries feels like abandonment. Through heartbreaking experiences with late-night jail calls and constant fears of overdose, Dawn reveals how trying to "fix" her children nearly destroyed her. Vivian and Dawn unpack how Christian moms can anchor themselves to God instead of their children's destructive behaviors. Together, they offer hope and wisdom for parents navigating one of life's most painful challenges, reminding listeners that God never leaves us even in our darkest moments. GUEST BIO Dawn Ward is a speaker, writer and biblical life coach. She is the founder of The Faith to Flourish, a ministry that equips women with addicted loved ones to break free from the cycle of addiction, reclaim their lives, and flourish in their faith. The Faith to Flourish also offers life-transforming insight, wisdom and Christian guidance for all women, along with hope and support to those who feel burdened and overwhelmed by life. Dawn is the author of the book, From Guilt to Grace: Hope and Healing for Christian Moms of Addicted Children. She is also co-author of the book, Still Standing After All the Tears Workbook: Faith in the Battle Edition and a contributing author for the devotionals, Butterfly Living: Life Changing Stories and Shepherd on Duty. Dawn has been married to her husband, Steve, for over forty years and is a mom to three adult children. It is her passion to help all women grow in their faith as they learn to better understand the Bible and apply it to their lives. POWERFUL QUOTE: “We do have hope. We are praying moms. We have the Holy Spirit leading us and guiding us.” - Dawn Ward Connect with Dawn at The Faith to Flourish on most social media platforms. Website: https://thefaithtoflourish.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/thefaithtoflourish Instagram: https://instagram.com/thefaithtoflourishblog Instagram: https://instagram.com/dawnr.ward Twitter: https://twitter.com/faithtoflourish YouTube: https://youtube.com/thefaithtoflourishwithdawnward Linkedin: https://linkedin.com/in/dawn-ward-93975b266 CONNECT WITH VIVIAN Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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The Bait and Switch: How Being Catfished Set Stacey Free | Ep. 033 46:11

cách đây 19 weeks trước46:11

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What happens when a search for love leads down an unexpected path of deception? Author Stacey Szczepanski joins Vivian to share how being catfished set her free to develop a deeper relationship with God and herself. Through vulnerable storytelling, Vivian and Stacey explore the hidden dangers of online relationships, the importance of trusting your gut, and why taking time to heal is crucial before pursuing new relationships. With tears and laughter, Stacey and Vivian remind us that while we all desire to be loved, our ultimate fulfillment comes from God's unconditional love. Discover why being single doesn't define your worth and how embracing God's timing can lead to your most authentic life. GUEST BIO: Stacey Szczepanski is an author, literacy coach, and a classroom educator of more than 14 years. When she was 22 years old, Stacey joined a dating site and was deceived by an online persona claiming to be someone they’re not. Since then, she has written a book about her experience titled Unlocking Love: How Being Catfished Deepened My Faith and Led me on a Journey to Wholeness. Stacey is passionate about spreading God’s love, connecting with people, and offering support for trauma survivors. Website: https://staceyszczepanski.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/staceyszczepanski Facebook: https://facebook.com/stacey.szczepanski.9 Book: Unlocking Love: How Being Catfished Deepened My Faith and Led me on a Journey to Wholeness by Stacey Szczepanski (2023) https://amazon.com/Unlocking-Love-Catfished-Deepened-Wholeness/dp/1625862571 POWERFUL QUOTE: “You are loved, you are never alone, and healing is not easy, but it is possible. And all you need to do is put one foot in front of the other.” - Stacey Szczepanski CONNECT WITH VIVIAN: Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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Me, Myself, and We: Identity Protection in Relationships | Ep. 032 31:42

cách đây 20 weeks trước31:42

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Have you ever felt unsure about your identity? Do you ever fall into the trap of defining yourself by your accomplishments, titles, or by the company you keep? On today’s episode of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast, Vivian is joined by Angela Pitnikoff, a wife, mother, and Christian life coach who has had her own struggles with identity loss. After Angela got married and became a mom, she realized that she had let those labels define her life and didn’t know who she truly was outside of her marriage, motherhood, or ministry. Angela’s personal identity was defined by the titles of “Christian,” “wife,” “mom,” and “daughter,” instead of what God says about her, and she ultimately felt unworthy and devoid of true purpose. Vivian and Angela discuss the phenomenon that many of us face, of losing our individual identities within the dynamics of a relationship. Oftentimes it’s easy for us to unintentionally let others determine who we are instead of being tethered to the Lord. One of the many beauties of having a relationship with Jesus is that we don’t have to earn it. You no longer need to be trapped in a cycle of performance and unworthiness, because your worth and identity comes from being created by God, who loves you and wants a relationship with you. Angela reminds listeners that in order to fully comprehend God’s intentions for us, we need to know Him, which requires spending time in prayer and in His Word. The closer we are to God, the more we can understand His heart, and the better we understand who we were created to be. GUEST BIO: Angela Pitnikoff is an Christian life coach, wife of more than 20 years, and a mom of three boys. She is a worship singer and has worked in Christian ministry throughout her entire adult life, and she hosts a podcast and coaching ministry called The Kingdom Daughters. Angela is passionate about reminding Christian women and mothers that they were created on purpose and for a purpose, and their heavenly Father wants to be in close relationship with them. Website: https://www.thekingdomdaughters.com/ Podcast: The Kingdom Daughters Podcast ( Apple , Spotify ) YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mrsangelapitnikoff Instagram: instagram.com/mrsangelapitnikoff Facebook: facebook.com/kingdomdaughterssisterhood POWERFUL QUOTE: “Ultimately, God’s Word is the bread of life, it is our fuel, it is what gives us passion and purpose and a plan.” - Angela Pitnikoff CONNECT WITH VIVIAN: Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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Servant Leadership: Leading Others with Love and Laughter | Ep. 031 35:06

cách đây 21 weeks trước35:06

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What does leadership look like to you? When you think of the qualities of a great leader, what comes to mind? On today’s episode of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast, host Vivian Cumins is joined by colleague Erika Mascarenas, and the two discuss Erika’s distinct leadership style and what it looks like to lead like Christ. Erika describes her leadership style as “leading with love and laughter,” and she believes above anything else, she is a creation of God who is meant to live out God’s kindness in her everyday life. Vivian and Erika address the challenges of working in the competitive, secular workplace, where love and laughter aren’t always present. But just like a home, a workplace has its own values and dynamics, and Erika believes it is essential to lead in a way that allows colleagues and employees to grow and feel cared for. Erika also discusses the importance of what she calls a “4G lifestyle,” which consists of God, grit, gratitude, and grace. Growing up, these were the core values that Erika’s parents emulated and instilled in her, and now she is intentional about bringing these to the workplace. In her day to day, this may look like praying before a meeting, uplifting coworkers, or implementing random acts of kindness. She encourages listeners to remember that God is always directing our steps, so all we need to do is trust the process and trust Him, and we will end up where we are meant to be. GUEST BIO: Erika Mascarenas is a career professional and natural leader who believes in leading with love and laughter. She is passionate about people and about the acts of kindness that can show God’s love to those who are feeling worn or downcast. She has a goal of starting a nonprofit called “Operation Blessing,” which will allow people to send discreet, anonymous encouragement to those who are in need of it. POWERFUL QUOTE: “If you do know Jesus, it’s going to show up in everything you do — it’s going to show up in the way you type, it’s going to show up in the way you talk, it’s going to show up in the way you care, it’s going to show up in the way you lead.” - Erika Mascarenas CONNECT WITH VIVIAN: Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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The Heart of Resolution: Strengthening Relationships Through Conflict | Ep. 030 36:48

cách đây 22 weeks trước36:48

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Are you struggling with some sort of relational conflict in your life? Would you like to know how to solve arguments quicker and calmer? On today’s episode of the Juggling Life, Finding Balance Podcast, Vivian is joined by Dr. Christina (Chris) Wilson, a Christian Life Coach with a PhD in conflict analysis and resolution. Chris has a background working in juvenile court and court mediation, but further than that, she remembers growing up in a household in which conflict wasn’t always handled well. It was Chris’ assumption that conflict is always emotionally-charged and sometimes volatile, until God showed her another way. Her scholarly research and Biblical knowledge has changed the way to which Chris views conflict, and she now encourages others to view tension and argument in a different light. We tend to view conflict as detrimental to ourselves and our relationships, but Chris reminds listeners that not all conflict is inherently bad. Oftentimes, when handled well, it can strengthen relationships and improve communication. Moments of conflict are really just conversations, but they escalate when emotions are sparked, usually after one of our values is targeted. Thankfully, the Bible has lots to say about conflict resolution, and Chris pulls from that knowledge and encourages listeners to bring calmness and peace to a tense conversation. To hear more practical advice and tips for approaching conflict resolution, check out this episode! GUEST BIO: Dr. Christina Wilson is a Christian Life Coach with a PhD in conflict analysis and resolution. She runs her own coaching business in which she provides pre-marital and relationship coaching, mediation, group facilitation, and Circle process services. She is passionate about people and relationships, and hopes that those she serves will have a changed outlook on conflict that will change the way they approach emotional conversations. To request your FREE Conflict Resolution Questionnaire, simply send an email to: jugglinglifepodcast@gmail.com and type “Freebie” in the subject line to claim your free resource! Website: https://iheartresolution.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@christinar.wilsonph.d.233 Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/christina-r-wilson Email: iheartresolution@gmail.com POWERFUL QUOTE: “When conflict gets bad is when we get personal — when we get off the issue and start attacking personally.” - Christina Wilson CONNECT WITH VIVIAN: Website: https://viviancumins.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/viviancumins2 Instagram: https://instagram.com/viviancumins YouTube: https://youtube.com/@JugglingLifeFindingBalance Apple & Spotify (Smartlink): https://link.chtbl.com/JugglingLifeFindingBalance TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@viviancumins MemoryBlogger Website: https://memoryblogger.com…

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