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Episode Notes [03:47] Seth's Early Understanding of Questions [04:33] The Power of Questions [05:25] Building Relationships Through Questions [06:41] This is Strategy: Focus on Questions [10:21] Gamifying Questions [11:34] Conversations as Infinite Games [15:32] Creating Tension with Questions [20:46] Effective Questioning Techniques [23:21] Empathy and Engagement [34:33] Strategy and Culture [35:22] Microsoft's Transformation [36:00] Global Perspectives on Questions [39:39] Caring in a Challenging World Resources Mentioned The Dip by Seth Godin Linchpin by Seth Godin Purple Cow by Seth Godin Tribes by Seth Godin This Is Marketing by Seth Godin The Carbon Almanac This is Strategy by Seth Godin Seth's Blog What Does it Sound Like When You Change Your Mind? by Seth Godin Value Creation Masterclass by Seth Godin on Udemy The Strategy Deck by Seth Godin Taylor Swift Jimmy Smith Jimmy Smith Curated Questions Episode Supercuts Priya Parker Techstars Satya Nadella Microsoft Steve Ballmer Acumen Jerry Colonna Unleashing the Idea Virus by Seth Godin Tim Ferriss podcast with Seth Godin Seth Godin website Beauty Pill Producer Ben Ford Questions Asked When did you first understand the power of questions? What do you do to get under the layer to really get down to those lower levels? Is it just follow-up questions, mindset, worldview, and how that works for you? How'd you get this job anyway? What are things like around here? What did your boss do before they were your boss? Wow did you end up with this job? Why are questions such a big part of This is Strategy? If you had to charge ten times as much as you charge now, what would you do differently? If it had to be free, what would you do differently? Who's it for, and what's it for? What is the change we seek to make? How did you choose the questions for The Strategy Deck? How big is our circle of us? How many people do I care about? Is the change we're making contagious? Are there other ways to gamify the use of questions? Any other thoughts on how questions might be gamified? How do we play games with other people where we're aware of what it would be for them to win and for us to win? What is it that you're challenged by? What is it that you want to share? What is it that you're afraid of? If there isn't a change, then why are we wasting our time? Can you define tension? What kind of haircut do you want? How long has it been since your last haircut? How might one think about intentionally creating that question? What factors should someone think about as they use questions to create tension? How was school today? What is the kind of interaction I'm hoping for over time? How do I ask a different sort of question that over time will be answered with how was school today? Were there any easy questions on your math homework? Did anything good happen at school today? What tension am I here to create? What wrong questions continue to be asked? What temperature is it outside? When the person you could have been meets the person you are becoming, is it going to be a cause for celebration or heartbreak? What are the questions we're going to ask each other? What was life like at the dinner table when you were growing up? What are we really trying to accomplish? How do you have this cogent two sentence explanation of what you do? How many clicks can we get per visit? What would happen if there was a webpage that was designed to get you to leave? What were the questions that were being asked by people in authority at Yahoo in 1999? How did the stock do today? Is anything broken? What can you do today that will make the stock go up tomorrow? What are risks worth taking? What are we doing that might not work but that supports our mission? What was the last thing you did that didn't work, and what did we learn from it? What have we done to so delight our core customers that they're telling other people? How has your international circle informed your life of questions? What do I believe that other people don't believe? What do I see that other people don't see? What do I take for granted that other people don't take for granted? What would blank do? What would Bob do? What would Jill do? What would Susan do? What happened to them? What system are they in that made them decide that that was the right thing to do? And then how do we change the system? How given the state of the world, do you manage to continue to care as much as you do? Do you walk to school or take your lunch? If you all can only care if things are going well, then what does that mean about caring? Should I have spent the last 50 years curled up in a ball? How do we go to the foundation and create community action?…
Nội dung được cung cấp bởi Chuck Chapman, M.A., Chuck Chapman, and M.A.. Tất cả nội dung podcast bao gồm các tập, đồ họa và mô tả podcast đều được Chuck Chapman, M.A., Chuck Chapman, and M.A. hoặc đối tác nền tảng podcast của họ tải lên và cung cấp trực tiếp. Nếu bạn cho rằng ai đó đang sử dụng tác phẩm có bản quyền của bạn mà không có sự cho phép của bạn, bạn có thể làm theo quy trình được nêu ở đây https://vi.player.fm/legal.
This podcast is for recovering "Nice Guys" who are tired of people pleasing and always finishing in last. If you’re ready to uncover your purpose, transcend self-doubt, and start living the best version of yourself, then you’re in the right place. We're not here for temporary solutions but to forge a path of integrity and genuine self-understanding. Tired of feeling like you're not living up to your potential? Hit that subscribe button and engage in the conversation. I'm Chuck Chapman. As a professional psychotherapist, life and relationships coach, mystic, and fellow journeyman, I specialize in assisting men in navigating life's challenges. My own story includes battles with addiction, the emotional turmoil of divorce, financial downfalls like bankruptcy, health concerns, and the complexities of family ties. But through it all, I've not only survived but thrived, finding my purpose and passion. The content shared here is for general knowledge and motivational purposes. It is not a substitute for therapy or professional psychological advice. Learn more at ChuckChapman.com
Nội dung được cung cấp bởi Chuck Chapman, M.A., Chuck Chapman, and M.A.. Tất cả nội dung podcast bao gồm các tập, đồ họa và mô tả podcast đều được Chuck Chapman, M.A., Chuck Chapman, and M.A. hoặc đối tác nền tảng podcast của họ tải lên và cung cấp trực tiếp. Nếu bạn cho rằng ai đó đang sử dụng tác phẩm có bản quyền của bạn mà không có sự cho phép của bạn, bạn có thể làm theo quy trình được nêu ở đây https://vi.player.fm/legal.
This podcast is for recovering "Nice Guys" who are tired of people pleasing and always finishing in last. If you’re ready to uncover your purpose, transcend self-doubt, and start living the best version of yourself, then you’re in the right place. We're not here for temporary solutions but to forge a path of integrity and genuine self-understanding. Tired of feeling like you're not living up to your potential? Hit that subscribe button and engage in the conversation. I'm Chuck Chapman. As a professional psychotherapist, life and relationships coach, mystic, and fellow journeyman, I specialize in assisting men in navigating life's challenges. My own story includes battles with addiction, the emotional turmoil of divorce, financial downfalls like bankruptcy, health concerns, and the complexities of family ties. But through it all, I've not only survived but thrived, finding my purpose and passion. The content shared here is for general knowledge and motivational purposes. It is not a substitute for therapy or professional psychological advice. Learn more at ChuckChapman.com
One of the major reasons Nice Guys don't get the life they want is because they are bad enders. They tend to stick around when something isn't working claiming to be loyal when in reality they are simply afraid to end things. In this video I teach you how to become a good ender so you can get what you want in life, love and sex.…
How do you create leadership and polarity masculinity in your relationship? Today we discuss the advice of authentic masculine leadership in relationships and address the consequences of role reversal between partners. Learn how to set the tone, create a vision, inspire your partner, and develop a definite plan to restore balance and connection in your relationship. Discover why leadership is crucial and how to rebuild trust to achieve a powerful and meaningful partnership.…
We explore the deep connection between your relationship with money and your relationship with feminine energy. Masculine energy is what structures money. Discover how changing your view on feminine energy can impact your financial well-being. The video dives into the concept of financial independence, emphasizing three main pillars: mindset, habits, and relationships. Gain insights from 'Think and Grow Rich' by Napoleon Hill, learn actionable steps for shifting your money mindset, and explore the importance of affirmations, visualizations, and consistent habits. Join me for a transformative journey towards financial freedom by aligning your financial habits with your masculine energy and deeper values.…
What is Positive Masculine Energy? It's needed in Positive Masculinity in men more today than at any other time. Discover the 30 rates of positive masculine energy and how the power of language shapes our unconscious mind and influences our actions. In this video, Chuck Chapman shares a personal mountain biking experience to illustrate the importance of positive focus. He explains how focusing on what we want rather than what we want to avoid can drive success and positivity. The video also introduces the concept of positive masculine energy and outlines 30 key attributes to cultivate it. Chapman provides a printable 30-day calendar to help viewers focus on and enhance these attributes daily. Download the calendar at https://www.chuckchapman.com/downloads subscribe for more content, and explore the 30-day recovery from the 'Nice Guy' syndrome. Keywords: #masculinity #nomoremrniceguy #toxicmasculinity #robertglover #niceguysyndrome…
I delve into self-improvement and self-development by teaching you the crucial questions to get what you want in life. I introduce six universal psychological needs—connection, security, respect, vision, purpose, and growth—that are essential for personal fulfillment. I also explore how societal and familial expectations can lead to feelings of shame around desires. By understanding and addressing these needs, you can create a more meaningful and fulfilling life. Learn how to take responsibility for your happiness and start your journey of self-discovery today.…
How do you accept yourself? How do you love yourself? In this episode, we explore the importance of having a strong sense of self to avoid becoming a people pleaser and to lead a fulfilling life. Learn about self-awareness, self-love, and how to set healthy boundaries. Practical advice includes daily practices like positive self-talk and understanding that our perceived flaws are just part of who we are. Discover how neuropsychology supports the idea that we can rewire our thoughts and behaviors to embrace our true selves and enhance our relationships. #SelfLove #Confidence #SelfImprovement #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth…
Discover the secret to emotional control, mastering emotional intelligence, and achieving emotional regulation. Learn impulse control, stress management, and resilience through mindfulness and self-awareness. Unlock your emotional mastery with proven strategies from behavioral psychology. Conquer emotional overwhelm and develop mental health skills for personal development and self-improvement. In this video, we'll explore the purpose of emotions from a behavioral psychology perspective and provide practical strategies to help you navigate life's challenges with greater composure and resilience. Discover the three key components of emotional control: Impulse control: Learn how to resist immediate reactions and make thoughtful decisions. Stress management: Find effective ways to stay calm under pressure and cope with stress. Resilience: Develop the ability to bounce back from setbacks and maintain emotional balance. Through real-life examples and actionable tips, you'll gain the tools to recognize your emotional triggers, regulate your responses, and harness your feelings to create a more fulfilling life. Say goodbye to being stuck in old patterns and hello to a new era of emotional mastery. Join us on this transformative journey and unlock the power of emotional control today! #EmotionalControl #EmotionalIntelligence #StressManagement #Resilience #PersonalDevelopment #MentalHealth #Mindfulness #LifeSkills #SelfImprovement #growthmindset…
Struggling with relationship problems? Learn how to diagnose the health of your love life and decide whether to stay or leave. This video explores four critical questions to evaluate your relationship, covering topics like communication, intimacy, and fear. Discover the importance of physical and emotional connection, and learn how to cultivate a culture of gratitude and appreciation. If you're stuck in a cycle of unhappiness, disconnection, and hostility, it might be time to consider ending your relationship. But if you're willing to put in the work, you can revive your love life and build a stronger, more fulfilling partnership. #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupOrStay #RelationshipHealth #CouplesCommunication #IntimacyInRelationships…
Breaking Free from Overthinking Learn how to stop overthinking for good and take control of your troubling thoughts. In this video, we'll cover tips on managing intrusive thoughts and improving your mental health. In this episode, I'm tackling the all-too-familiar problem of overthinking—how it paralyzes your decision-making, cranks up your stress levels, and wreaks havoc on your relationships. Borrowing some insights from computer programming, I dive into practical tools and techniques to help you escape those endless loops of worry and analysis paralysis. You'll learn how to set clear goals, establish firm boundaries for decision-making, and make timely choices to boost your productivity and mental well-being. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and comment with your own tips or experiences!…
What Nice Guys Get Wrong About Women in their Marriages. If you've been a nice guy in your marriage and you're trying to reclaim your masculinity, this video is for you. We're diving deep into masculine embodiment and psychology, with insights from John Wineland. Feeling stuck in your nice guy persona? It’s time to step up and embrace your masculine heart. I'll guide you through 10 actionable steps to help you regain your presence, authenticity, and integrity in your marriage. We’ll cover: How nice guy behavior erodes trust and kills attraction The importance of masculine polarity in relationships Practical tips for embodying masculine energy Discover the two key aspects of embodiment—physical and energetic—based on John Wineland’s teachings. Learn how to balance strength and vulnerability, maintain emotional awareness, and cultivate compassion. These practices will not only help you restore the passion and love in your marriage but also lead to deeper connections and a more fulfilling life. Ready to reclaim your masculinity? Watch now and start your journey towards a stronger, more authentic you.…
Toxic shame can be a hidden, yet powerful force, impacting everything from social anxiety to relationships. Healing toxic shame is crucial for overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome, as it fuels anxiety, depression, PTSD, and trauma. In this video, life coach and mental health advocate Chuck Chapman dives deep into the psychology of shame, providing insights and tools for personal growth and self-help. At the core of every Nice Guy is a shame parasite, a predator that sabotages authentic living. Understanding the difference between toxic shame and guilt is essential for effective therapy and mental health awareness. Shame isn't just an emotion; it's a belief that can destroy your self-worth and keep you stuck in patterns of codependency and fear of failure. Chuck shares practical strategies for healing toxic shame, inspired by experts like Dr. Robert Glover and Brené Brown. Learn how to recognize and combat toxic shame, how it fuels social anxiety disorder, and how to break free from the grip of shame that affects your mental health and relationships. Shame thrives in secrecy, but by bringing it to light, you can strip it of its power. Tune in for insights, real-life examples, and actionable advice to reclaim your worth and live authentically. Don’t let toxic shame run your life—learn to overcome it and thrive. * #NiceGuySyndrome #HealingShame #MentalHealthAwareness #PersonalGrowth #LifeCoach *…
Looking back, it's pretty clear that controlling others is a major symptom of the Nice Guy syndrome. Who knew that being Mr. Nice Guy was just a passive way to be Mr. Control Freak? It's not a good masculine trait. And guess what? Being controlling doesn't create positive relationships or a fulfilling life. Shocker, right? It’s exhausting and totally counterproductive. So what can you do about it? Watch this video and see if you are a good man or a control freak.…
Fair warning: You're not going to like what I have to say about Nice Guy Syndrome. Most nice guys will stay stuck in miserable, people-pleasing relationships, hoping for a different outcome. Moving from a nice guy to an integrated man is hard work. If you're ready to change, stay tuned. I'm going to give you the only thing you need to do to kill your internal nice guy.…
Let's talk about the importance of rites of passage in the journey from boyhood to manhood, especially for us recovering 'NICE' guys. It's something we've lost and I think we should bring it back. I'll share my own story about a male rite of passage that helped me transition into adulthood and kick my addiction and 'nice guy syndrome' to the curb. In our modern cultures, the lack of clear rites of passage leaves many of us feeling stuck in perpetual adolescence. I'll recount my transformative experience in a group event in the High-Desert of Oregon, involving ancient rituals adapted for our times. This story highlights the importance of embracing the responsibilities that come with manhood through formal ceremonies and vows. Oh, and there's a nod to the movie 'Kingdom of Heaven' to show the power of such initiations and discuss what makes an oath meaningful. I'll wrap things up with a call to action for your feedback on creating a rite of passage for men looking to fully embrace their masculinity. So, get ready for some eye-opening insights and maybe a little inspiration to take that next step in your own journey.…
People pleasing and the Nice Guy Syndrome are common for the Nice Guy and one of the ways this shows up for Nice Guys is that they are always saying I'm sorry. It's weak and meaningless. In today's video, I talk about why I never say I'm sorry anymore, and how it has changed my relationships for the better.…
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