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Nội dung được cung cấp bởi Paul Colaianni. Tất cả nội dung podcast bao gồm các tập, đồ họa và mô tả podcast đều được Paul Colaianni hoặc đối tác nền tảng podcast của họ tải lên và cung cấp trực tiếp. Nếu bạn cho rằng ai đó đang sử dụng tác phẩm có bản quyền của bạn mà không có sự cho phép của bạn, bạn có thể làm theo quy trình được nêu ở đây https://vi.player.fm/legal.
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When your relationships aren't exactly high quality or authentic
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Nội dung được cung cấp bởi Paul Colaianni. Tất cả nội dung podcast bao gồm các tập, đồ họa và mô tả podcast đều được Paul Colaianni hoặc đối tác nền tảng podcast của họ tải lên và cung cấp trực tiếp. Nếu bạn cho rằng ai đó đang sử dụng tác phẩm có bản quyền của bạn mà không có sự cho phép của bạn, bạn có thể làm theo quy trình được nêu ở đây https://vi.player.fm/legal.
Some relationships can be shallow and superficial. Some can be toxic and harmful. Then there are those that are quite meaningful. Why can't they all be meaningful? There might be a way to do that... but it comes at a risk.
580 tập
Manage episode 447012622 series 2394741
Nội dung được cung cấp bởi Paul Colaianni. Tất cả nội dung podcast bao gồm các tập, đồ họa và mô tả podcast đều được Paul Colaianni hoặc đối tác nền tảng podcast của họ tải lên và cung cấp trực tiếp. Nếu bạn cho rằng ai đó đang sử dụng tác phẩm có bản quyền của bạn mà không có sự cho phép của bạn, bạn có thể làm theo quy trình được nêu ở đây https://vi.player.fm/legal.
Some relationships can be shallow and superficial. Some can be toxic and harmful. Then there are those that are quite meaningful. Why can't they all be meaningful? There might be a way to do that... but it comes at a risk.
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